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    Lily04

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    Girls: Do you like giving head?

    I'm curious because I've given my bf oral sex multiple times but I don't really like it..I like the fact that he's enjoying it but the actual act almost makes me gag. Do people actually like doing this, or do they just do it as an expression of love?

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    I like it... I like keeping my mouth busy with licking bf, biting my lips, rolling tongue, biting bf, sucking him, etc. As long as my mouth is busy, I don't really care what I'm playing with. Performing oral sex is intimate, I have something to play with, I can feel him in my mouth, he likes it, and eh... I orgasm... it kills many birds with just one stone....

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    Too be honest, No. I dont really enjoy the act in itself. Cum isn't something I want anywhere near my mouth and having a penis in my mouth isnt the most fun way to spend an evening!

    However... what I DO enjoy is seeing the guy fulfilled and totally crazy enjoying himself - that makes me feel good!

    I dont think a lot of women really enjoy giving head, I think the enjoyment comes more from the look on your boyfriends face and the noises he's making. Knowing that its you thats making him feel that level of pleasure!
    When you think about it that way, it really isnt that bad!

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    I don't totally enjoy it either, but I do it. Like you, I do it because I know my boyfriend enjoys it & I'll do anything for him. He doesn't make me do it either, I just really like pleasing him. I enjoy the fact that I'm pleasing him, so I guess it all works out.

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    I love doing it because it drives my bf wild, but if I was doing it and getting no reaction, no I wouldn't enjoy it. I mean, I don't like it to the point where I'd give a sex toy "head" but getting the reaction I get from my bf is awesome enough to keep my mind off of the gagging and the other stuff that comes out of there...

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    Thanks,

    so I'm not the only one then I do love the look of satisfaction on his face afterwards so it is worth it.

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    not at all

    hey sparrow
    i dont like to do it at all...so i dont do it and my boyfriend respects that. he like to give which i find strange but i guess everybody is different. I think there are different ways to please i guy in ways that you can both enjoy.

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    I do enjoy giving head, I like oral sex in general!

    I love varying what I am doing, getting hands involved, using sucking, licking, kissing, teasing and watching/feeling him react in pleasurable ways. I like seeing if I do "this" he will do "that".

    If you are gagging, you can vary it a bit more rather than just "sucking", get your hands involved more so you can actually use your hand/s at base and still use your mouth so you don't gag. Also, you can vary with light kissing, licks, hands...it is not entirely about the sucking action.

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    Let me put it this way: I just got my tongue pierced.

    I love it! It takes a lot of getting used to and I'm very inexperienced, but I see it as a fun and playful way to express my love for him. I used to hate oral sex- I was so self-conscious about my own bpdy, and I was worried I'd do something wrong with my boyfriend. But learning is half the fun.

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    It's funny, but it seems that girls often hate giving BJ's but love getting oral. This is usually true for guys as well so I guess its a give-and-take situation. However, I think most people do it for the pleasure of seeing the enjoyment on their partner's face or body reactions. My tongue would often get so tired because it took forever for my ex-gf to cum (maybe 10-15 minutes), but I did it because I loved seeing the expression of total happiness when she did explode. It also made her far more willing and ready to have sex because now she wasn't worried about trying to get an orgasm from it. She could be free and just enjoy going at it full throttle without trying to get something for herself.

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