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    oberyn_martell
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    how long does it take you to orgasm (for men)

    hey this is an odd question but i am sorely lacking in guy friends so i have no other to talk about this with in my life but yea i was just wondering how long it takes most of you guys either by yourself or with some one?

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    Can't speak for the majority of us men, but for me it's usually between 20-45 minutes, but that depends on so much. I can hold it off for hours, or I can just focus and bust it out in 5 minutes. I've heard of men that can't last more than a few minutes, I can't imagine...

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    Well,
    it depends on a persons sex life. From a person thats never had sex and has only done masterbation its not going to take long. But, a person that is more sexual active can hold it for a longer. From a beginner it should only take a couple minutes.... But for a expiernced 10 minutes at least depending on what your doing and how good it is.

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    Depends how long i want to last. I will usually spend 20-40mins doing it, but if i wanted to get it out of me asap so to speak i could finish in probably 2 mins.

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    iv never had a gilr get me to orgasm b4 she tried but was too impatiant it takes me 1-4 hours by myself no matter hwo hard i focus. well it takes less time when shes on top of me coaxing me on but yea thats a diif story lol

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    For my boyfriend, it depends on how aroused he is and how long it's been since the last time he had an orgasm. Sometimes he takes 10-15 minutes, other times he comes very quickly.

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    it depends on who im with - i usually like to wait about 30 minutes but I could cream her in 3 mins

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    how fast? well...I can do get an orgasim in about a minute, but I won't cum much...

    I usually go at 20-30 minutes for good orgasims.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oberyn_martell
    iv never had a gilr get me to orgasm b4 she tried but was too impatiant it takes me 1-4 hours by myself no matter hwo hard i focus. well it takes less time when shes on top of me coaxing me on but yea thats a diif story lol
    WOW! Maybe you should get checked by a doctor, just to make sure everything's functioning properly.

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    The amount of time it takes to orgasm all depends on two main factors. How intensely you are going at it (masturbation or sex), and how long it has been since your last orgasm.
    If I had an orgasm 10 minutes ago, I could probably have rough sex for 3 hours before having another one. If I hadn't masturbated or had sex in a week, then I could go about 3 minutes.

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