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    what does it mean when he puts his finger in my mouth??

    my bf and i were kissing...making out n all. then there's one part where we stopped... and continuned kissing and he puts his index finger in2 my mouth..i think what i did was suckng it abit. and nibbled abit too... what was he trying 2 tell? does it mean anything? what am i supose 2 do when it happeneds again??

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    Re: what does it mean when he puts his finger in my mouth??

    Quote Originally Posted by bit3yerlip
    my bf and i were kissing...making out n all. then there's one part where we stopped... and continuned kissing and he puts his index finger in2 my mouth..i think what i did was suckng it abit. and nibbled abit too... what was he trying 2 tell? does it mean anything? what am i supose 2 do when it happeneds again??
    I suppose it meant he likes it. And he probably thinks you like it, too. It's quite a normal thing between two lovers.

    Then it may recall an obvious sex act, don't you think so?
    But it has not to be necessarily a request, if it's what you wanted to know

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    Sucking partners fingers is quite a normal thing to happen between a couple. Its kinda weird but feels ok nevertheless. Some girl i was seeing in a sex only type of relationship seemed forever trying to get me to suck her fingers , guess she really liked it.

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    Quite simply..it is an indication that oral sex is wanted or being offered.

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    I always associated it with oral sex but, at the same time it is a sign of intamacy. So it can be either or and all depends on what is happening between the two of you at that moment when it happens.


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    Oral sex, huh? Hmm... I guess I never really thought of it like that... yeah, that makes sense. I think it indicates a sexual urge in any fashion. Not to be too graphic, during sexual activity, if my boyfriend fingers me, he'll then proceed to slip his fingers into my mouth. Or I'll suck on his fingers a bit to initiate foreplay. It really is a sign of intimacy and sexual pleasure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PAdreamer
    Oral sex, huh? Hmm... I guess I never really thought of it like that... yeah, that makes sense. I think it indicates a sexual urge in any fashion. Not to be too graphic, during sexual activity, if my boyfriend fingers me, he'll then proceed to slip his fingers into my mouth. Or I'll suck on his fingers a bit to initiate foreplay. It really is a sign of intimacy and sexual pleasure.
    I never connected it to oral sex, either--maybe it's a guy thing.

    And, to be honest, I never thought a whole lot about the finger-in-mouth thing, period; it's just one of those pleasurable gestures that people sometimes do during foreplay or sex. I wasn't aware there were all sorts of connotations and deep meanings behind it.


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    I suppose there aren't ALWAYS deep feelings and intentions behind it. I think some people do it because they've been told that it's just something you do when you're being intimate. But when someone really means it, there's usually a lot of passion and desire behind it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PAdreamer
    I suppose there aren't ALWAYS deep feelings and intentions behind it. I think some people do it because they've been told that it's just something you do when you're being intimate. But when someone really means it, there's usually a lot of passion and desire behind it.
    I dunno... I was never told that it was something to do, but it feels good and it's a sensual act for both the person whose finger is being sucked and the one doing the sucking... I guess I just never put so much thought into it before--it just happens as part of a normal, healthy, sexual relationship. Now, oral sex I put some thought into...

    Dig the new avy, btw, PA.

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    Hey I never said that when I put my finger in my lovers mouth that I want a BJ. I just said that it reminds me of that act and for some reason it gets my blood flowing. heehee

    Hey oral is not something to take lightly and I am VERY serious when it comes to giving or getting. lol

    I agree ladies that it is a sensual part of love making but, you can see the differences between the way men and women look at things. Men are visual creatures and we can associate just about anything to sex. Of course I am sure you ladies already know that from being on this forum for a while. lol

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