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Hi...i need help masterbating. I try using water and everything like people tell you on here but it dosnt work for me. I rub my clit and that feels good but i dont orgasm from that and i really would like to learn how. i cant get a toy because my parents would know something was up. PLEASE HELP!!

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Ok, I'm embarased because I'm actually posting here, but I know a VERY good site that gives you good guidelines. It's how I learned to um... plessure my g/f, we haven't exactly had full blown sex though, and that's not gonna happen till 18. Anyway, the link is below.

 

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Just... try to explore yourself.

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you need to do some self-exploration - touch yourself in certain areas, breasts, clit, finger yourself, etc.

 

you really need to get in tune with what actually turns you on and what is just mediocre. sometimes it helps to put some kind of a mirror on the floor or whatever and squat over it. check your stuff out, watch it turn colors & swell.

 

what you probably need to do is rub your clit and either finger yourself or stimulate your nipples at the same time. the only way i can cum when i'm masturbating is to rub my clit while i'm doing more than one thing at a time.

 

either that or i just hit up my boyfriend and make him suck on my tits while he's teasing my vagina with his penis...yeah...that'll do it every time

 

try different positions, on your back, on your knees, on your stomach, in the shower/bath.

 

as for the toy situation...pickles, cucumbers, bananas, carrots, and whatever else is around that could simulate a penis.

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Get a vibrator and just hide it from your parents. They work a charm on your clit, i don't find them that good inside you tho. Otherwise theres these toys called a butterfly which you kinda strap on (Sounds weird i know) and if stimulates your clit. You can actually wear these during sex for girls who have trouble reaching an orgasm during sex, you can even wear it under your jeans during the day, although i haven't done this, would be a bit weird!

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There are plenty of ways to use toys without having them around. Find anything the general size and shape of a penis and use it as a dildo. Get the vibrating facial cleanser they sell at CVS and use it on your clit. It's also the perfect shape to close your legs around it with it up against your vaginal opening so you can touch your breasts (maybe try using a massager on them) at the same time. Have you tried using porn? If you use google incognito, it won't leave a record so your parents can't find it.

 

After that, just touch yourself in all different ways and see what feels good.

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i can help u just lay down, spread ur legs and start rubbing ur clit, and * * * * * and imgagine a guy being on top of u if u love role play during sex then just picture tht while masterbartting i do it all the time and it works

i do 2 specific role playing while i masterbate and it works

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It takes me a while to masturbate fully by fingering myself. I use to finger myself when I would have phone sex with my ex but I haven't done that in...years. My favorite way is in the bath tub. I let the tub fill up a couple inches and scoot closer to the faucet. I put my legs up against the wall and lay right under the stream of water (depending on water pressure it could be too hard or too light) and fantasize away lol it works for me and you can move around slowly, up and down, side to side and once the tub fills up a little more the pressure isn't as hard. The water should be running on top of your clit, not directly into you. It takes a couple times to master but its my favorite way.

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