The Water-Bra Nightmare appears again...

Ok, I posted about a similar situation once before, here: link removed

And the general consensus is that I should gradually decrease the bra size and get on with my life.

But I haven't, because honestly, I think I look good with the waterbra when I'm looking in the mirror... but there aren't any mirrors at school when I'm walking around feeling self-conscience that my boobs look disproportional to the rest of me. (I fit into a 32b, even though it is a little tight, and the waterbra is a 34b, and its a little bit too big... and well, even when you are wearing a normal, non-push-up bra that is too big you know the effect.)

So basically, looking in the mirror, I like the way I look, but I'm afraid of what other people will notice...

But HERE IS THE REAL SITUATION

Somehow me and my friend got onto the subject of boobs, and she goes, "At least mine are real!" (Jokingly, but not too jokingly, she's trying to find out what's up with the sudden increase in chest since last year)

What should I have said? I'm not telling what i DID say, I jsut want to know your opinion.

Hon.........you're worrying WAY too much about this. Quite honestly, if someone says something ( a female friend like that, anyway) tell 'em you wear a WonderBra or a waterbra, whatever. It's nothing to be ashamed of and you can't change your body, so just GO with it. It's nobody's business what your boobs are doing, after all!

As a funny aside: do you watch "Will & Grace"? Did you ever see the episode where she sprung a leak in HER waterbra? Funny as hell.....lol Just relax. People should be looking at YOU, not your chest. (And trust me, from the other end of the spectrum, being rather....er....."well-endowed".....) I'd MUCH rather be appreciated for who I am and have people notice me for ME, not for what's beneath my chin!!

Mar

I would reply with:

"Hey! Mine are real! I just give them a nudge in the right direction! Its like wearing black pants, or makeup... accentuating!"

you gotta accentuate the positive,

eliminate the negative

hey,

dont worry about this too much, i read your other posts, so i know what your talking about.

one question...how do you handle physical education? just curious.

as for the answer i would have said.

''mine are real, i paid for this bra!''

i'd personally make a joke out of it, laugh and move on to new topics.

kel

What do you mean "handle" PE? You mean in the locker room?

MollyElise I like your suggestion... "They are real, I just give em a nudge in the right direction"

What I actually did was I looked down and said "Hm, they look pretty real to me." but it came off sort of forced... she was all, ok, whatever

sorry, yeah i meant within the locker rooms, or whatever you have as a changing area. but yeah i just thought people would notice.

i dont think it was that bad of a thing to say, and dont worry, there your mates right?

kel

Yeah they would but i don't change out of my bra because we don't need to. So i just jog in it... it really doesn't matter i guess i just don't notice it

ok then, thanks, i guess i was just curious since id never tried one out. thanks for answering.

kel