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    needhelpnow
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    Masturbation with other guys - is it ok???

    Hey i was just wondering if its ok to masturbate with other guys...
    im not gay in any way...i have a girlfriend mind you, but i was wondering because the other day me and a few friends stayed the night at my mates house and well we watched a porno and then we all started jacking off...

    it was weird but i was wondering if theres anything wrong with it and what other guys think about this issue and if any other guys have done anything similar to this.

    cheers people

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    It I do say that this is really weird, and how the hell did it all start up? How many of you were there? But hey if gals can do it then why cant guys. You all get aroused with watching a porn and do it when you guys are alone so doing it together im sure give it a bit more excitement… right?

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    Hey!! I say whatever floats your boat!! Nobodies to say its strange coz if its something you want to do then who cares.I have known a few guys do this,nothing bad came out of it,but just beware that one of you doesnt change your feelings about it.I mean guys watch porno's together all the time and get horny doing so,so if you're all comfortable enough with each other...fine...not sure i could do it though!!

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    sorry, no offense, sounds gay though

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    Well, I have to be honest, this, in my opinion, is quite... unorthodox. How did it all begin anyways, one of your friend, asked if you wanted to do it or something like that?

    I watched a porn flick once with friends a long time ago, but we didn't masturbate together, would have felt, WAYYY to weird and.. Well there's something about this story that sounds bizarre.

    If your question is, is is okay.. well I suppose so, as you didn't do anything wrong to anyone. As far as being normal, in the sense that this is a behaviour everyone does once in a while, I would be tempted to say no, masterbating with other men, if you're straigth, sounds abnormal. As long as you're fine with it though.

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    i dunno said
    sorry, no offense, sounds gay though

    umm..why does it sound gay? i mean, thats probably a stupid question, but just because he masturbated in front of his friends while watching a porn movie doesn't mean its gay... just because he saw another guy's private parts doesn't mean its gay...

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    Does this make me gay?

    There is a Kinsey scale that goes from 0 to 6, six is only homosexual contact, zero is only heterosexual contact. If you are physically touching them and you are less than sixteen years old, it may mean nothing. You are who you are inside.

    If you look deep in your own heart, you will know the answer.

    I was looking at some of the other responses and it came to mind: did you do this willingly? Did you feel like it was something that you really wanted to do, or did the other guy ask you to do it, making it seem ok even though you felt a little weird about it??

    Were all the people present with in a few years of each other in age?

    People: always remember that you must choose to do a sex act to make it ok, others shouldn't have to talk you into something, or make you so drunk or uncomfortable that you do things with them that you wouldn't normally do...

    Look up "sexual boundaries": I found the following

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    I know it is talking to dr's about what they can/should do with their patients, but it may give some people some insight into what is good touching and what is bad touching.


    Here is anpther one under "maintaining proper workplace boundaries"

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    Thanks for responding everyone.

    I mean Im not sure if its a big deal. like i said it happened one night when we stayed at my mates house. we were just watching a porno and then of course we got horny and then they one by one took out their di**s and so i felt as if i had to. dont get me wrong - they didnt make me, i just didnt want to feel like the odd one out. i didnt feel uncomfortable coz they are really good friends of mine and i know that they arent gay - half of them have girlfriends.

    i spoke about it to another friend the next day and he said it was normal for guys to do it....so i wasnt sure if any other guys have done anything similar to this.

    we didnt at all touch each other...we barely even looked at each other!
    we are all around 16 years old is this normal?

    most people that have replied have said that it isnt, does that mean theres something wrong with me and do i have to tell my girlfriend what happened? im scared she wont understand if i do tell her...

    have any other guys ever done something like this?? im worried now!!

    PLEASE HELP...

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    sorry im a gal and to see that wud really really turn me on i say go with it i think it rules ive fingered my mates and theyve done it back to me it feels amazing cuz its not hurting any1 go for it

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    ive heard of it

    Ive heard of people doing it before. Im a guy and have never done it before but Ive heard of other guys doing it. Personally, if I was doing it I'd wanna go into like a bathroom or something before I climaxed, but I don't necessarily see anything wrong with it as long as everyone's comfortable with it.

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