What do men really want???

So come on men what is it that you really want? I've tried to get into your heads but it just doesnt appear very clear to me??I think if men were to write a book for the females it would be in a different language? maybe im wrong i dont know...

No, you are not wrong. It would be in a different language. To bad we dont understand it. I wonder if they teach there language at school?

all I want is Kristina

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all I want is Kristina

 

 

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Please translate?????

lol hahahaha babes if you were my friend i sure as a hell wouldnt leave your side until you were as happy as i am when i see this guy im confused about....you are one of a kind

She's a girl that i like.

here's the story if you wanna read.

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She's a girl that i like.

 

here's the story if you wanna read.

 

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You should write a Novel about this!! I would buy it

lmao,, u actually read the whole thing?

Joe i need to be honest I read the first paragraph and thought "oh my god that is one long story!" and clicked the back button....sorry i know its cold but it is also 4 o clock in the morning where i am.

oh, i understand, lol i do the same thing. it's better to post short but informational posts. So peeps stay interested and don't have to spend hours reading it. No offense taken. But if you wanna know, i can sum it up real quick for ya. but if now, it's kewl.

lmao,, u actually read the whole thing?

I have nothing better to do with my life at the moment.

well,what do you think? "or is my question too vague?" lol

Joe you can tell me in a short story if ya like..I can give my opinion but keep in mind my head isnt very good at getting around relationship probs at the mo hence why im on this site...lol

Alright. basically, i've been talking witlh Kristina for almost 2 months now. She's been really flirty or not talking to me off and on. During this time we went out only once, and i found out that she might be moving away to college. Outa state, but she might stay in state, she's not sure. So, i recently asked how she felt about me and if we could be more than just friends. She blushed, smiled and said that she didn't know what to say and that she couldn't deal with it at the time.

the next day she left to look at a college for a week. she works with me. when she got back, she came to work and was like "hi Joe" and then later on she walked up to me and gave me a hug... but didn't say anything...

any thoughts?

Okay, here's my chance to sound foolish, because this is about as easy as telling you how many stars there are in the universe. Each guy is different. But I'm going to try answer this one from my guy point of view.

1. Validation - Every guy wants to feel like he's a real man, and the best person to show him that is a woman.

2. Intimacy - Besides sex, which is the most obvious part of it, a guy actually has trouble getting close to people and constantly tries to gut out his problems on his own. Knowing that there's someone in there with him is a great comfort. And yes, if a guy goes without sex or intimacy for long enough, it drives him a little crazy.

3. Support - Guys are constantly out there "fighting the wars" and getting bruised up while to fulfill the expectations of them. Let them know you are there for them in good times and bad, not just when they win, but also when they try and lose.

4. Sympathy - Do you know that women still hold much of the power when it comes to relationships, because the guy has to take the risks and the woman gets to decide whether or not to accept or reject...especially early in the relationship? So, cut him some slack and let him be less than perfect sometimes...after all, he doesn't judge you with the same clarity that you judge him.

5. Humor - I have to throw that one in...the women I love the most are always ones that help me laugh and bring out my better nature. Relations do not have to be heavy and moody and dramatic to work. Lower the stakes a bit, and you'll both breathe easier and get more out of your time together.

Last, I have to say that the question is probably reversed for you. You really ought to ask yourself what YOU want, and then find a guy who fits that. So many of us are wrapped up in this idea that we need to find and please "the One," and by thinking that the One is assigned to us in the cosmos and we have to track them down, we set ourselves up to not be in control and get our own needs neglected.

Does that get ya started, at least?

Good answer. Lost for words for a change!

Thanks. By the way, I lived in the UK for a year (South Bank, London) and the UK rocks.

Just like how not all people want the same thing, not all guys want the same thing. Some guys just want to get laid as much as possible. Some just want a cool friend to hang out with and do stuff with. And some want/ are ready for the real deal.