boy friend problems

This is kind of an embarrassing problem, see I have this boy friend that insists on anal sex (I'm a guy by the way) all the time, but the problem is that he has a huge penis and it ripped my asshole last time and I had to go into surgery, it's still healing but he still wants more and more sex, he also always grabs my testes and smacks my ass until it's bright red and it starts to peel. After he ejaculates into me, he makes me suck the feces off of his penis, which makes me very ill after wards. I want to tell him to stop but I'm afraid I'll hurt his feelings, what should I do?

eeeeew, im not homophobic but that was WAAAAY to much information man. anyways, yuck, uhh, just tell him how you feel, make him realize that its not as..."fun"... for you as it is for him. maybe that helps, im gonna go have a shower, i feel dirty just for reading that.

You obviously gotta set some boundaries for yourself!!!!! YOu can't keep doing stuff you don't want to...specially when you're at risk for injury. If he's as good a guy as you think he'll understand...