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Thread: ADVICE BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE

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    ADVICE BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE

    I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY. I AM 19 YEARS OLD AND HE IS 26. WE HAVE BEEN TALKING FOR 6 MONTHS AND THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING ALL SO WELL. WE ARE USUALLY ABLE TO TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT ANY AND EVERYTHING SINCE WE HAVE BASICALLY TOLD EACH OTHER EVERYTHING ABOUT OURSELVES. WHEN I SAY BASICALLY EVERYTHING I MEAN EVERYTHING. WELL, ABOUT A MONTH AGO HE MOVED AND WE NOW HAVE A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. AND SO NOW WE TRY TO EXPRESS OUR FEELINGS MORE AND TELL EACH OTHER WHAT WE ARE THINKING. ANYWAY, WE WERE HAVING THIS DISCUSSION LAST NIGHT. HE ASKED ME DID WE START OUR RELATIONSHIP OFF THE SAME AS I STARTED ALL MY OTHER CONVERSATIONS WITH OTHERS. I ONLY HAD ONE REAL BOYFRIEND AND THAT WAS FOR 2 YEARS AND I TOLD HIM EVERYTHING. I TOLD HIM I HAVE CONVERSATED WITH OTHERS AND I LIKED TALKING TO THEM AND I FELT LIKE I MIGHT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM BUT IT NEVER HAPPENED. I HAVE DEVELOPED STRONG FEELINGS FOR HIM AND HE KNOWS THEM. A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO I TOLD HIM I FELT LIKE I WAS FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM. HE WANTS TO KNOW WHAT'S SO DIFFERENT WITH HIM THAN OTHERS. AND I'M LIKE WHY IS WHAT I HAD WITH OTHERS IN THE PAST SO IMPORTANT AND HE'S LIKE IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH US. I TOLD HIM I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN ANYTHING BESIDES MY FEELINGS FOR HIM. HE SAYS HE'S TIRED OF TRYING TO TALK TO ME AND GET TO KNOW THINGS ABOUT ME WHEN I FEEL LIKE HE KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT ME. I DON'T WANT THINGS TO END SO I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO AND SOME TIPS ON HOW TO BE ABLE TO COMMUNICATE ABOUT ANY AND EVERTHING.

    THANKS!

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    HEY PRETTYGYRL,
    I JUST WANNA SAY THAT I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HIM WHAT HE WANTS TO KNOW. IM NOT SAYING DISCUSS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. JUST TELL HIM STRAIGHT UP HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU ARE WITH HIM, AS OPPOSED WITH THE OTHER GUY. I THINK THAT IS WHAT HE IS ASKING FOR. THIS WHOLE HONESTY THING GOES BOTH WAYS. YOU TELL HIM WHAT HE WANTS TO KNOW AND HE TELLS YOU WHAT YOU WANNA KNOW ABOUT HIM. THAT WAY ITS FAIR AND NEITHER OF YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR BEING POUNCED ON OR INTERROGATED. I HOPE I HELPED, EVEN IF A LITTLE.

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    Just be honest here, tell him what you are feeling and why you want him so bad cause if you don't you'll maybe lost someone you really like. If I really read your post this is all about you hide something from him.

    peace


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