I hate to care.

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Hi Enchanter,

May I know what is the reason for your breakup?

What you are going through now is nothing strange. But remember, what matters most is your own well being and your future. Knowing full well that he is not the right guy for you is the first step. It is hard to detach yourself from a relationship once it ends, but we've got to bite the bullet and get on with our life.

As much as love is still in the mix, try to focus on the negative aspects which caused the rift in the first place. I am not encouraging negativity, but I am just trying to make you see the possible short comings if you were to get back together with him. No sense in wasting your efforts in a relationship that will head nowhere in the end.

Hope that I have helped.