I need sexual help!

Hi,

I have a major problem, I deffinetly like girls and I want to marry a girl, but sometime I have major erotic fanticies about big buff hairy men doing me hard, and I don't understand, I really don't want to be gay, but I can't stop having fanticies, and downloading gay porn all the time, but I also download a lot of straight porn. So, am I bisexual? Help me please! I am so confused.

I can't help you with that, but if I were you I'd go and seek out a gay or bisexual person online or in real life and ask them. They would have a much easier time assessing the situation than me. Other than that, consider how often you fantasize about gay sex, and how satisfied you are when masturbating while fantasizing about homosexual versus heterosexual scenarios.

How old are you? It is completely natural to fantasize and wonder about other sexual opportunities. I do not think you should worry about it really in any case. whatever you feel naturally is the way you are and you must accept it. the question stands "who are you" though. Maybe once you establish the answer to this, you will be able to accept it, but getting the answer is the difficult part. Are you more satisfied sexually one way or the other? Can you not be stimulated by not fantasizing about men? It could be a pure fantasy. Something that you would never actually feel comfortable doing but just enjoy the thought of it. The make-believe of it all. If you were presented with a homo/bi sexual situation, would you go for it? or would you be hesitant to accept because you feel that you wouldn't enjoy it regardless of your fantasy. Maybe the answers to these questions will lead you to better understand yourself. Just because you have fantasies does not necessarily mean that you are homo/bi sexual. However, it does not elimitate it either. You could always experiment with this field and see if it is your prefference or not. I hope you find your way.

it doesnt matter if you want to be gay or not, you are who you are. I have fantasies to. ALL THE TIME about 2 gay guys, or 2 gay girls, or me even with a girl. It happens. I wouldnt worry about it. Like they say, Maybe you need to talk to a bi/gay person online in a chat. Ask them. Theyll know more than we will ... but remember, you are who you are!