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    suicide

    I need help like a lot of help. I am think about suicide...well for a long time now. But if i sit down and think about i don't think that i want to die but i have no pros and my cons i don't know what to do. i want to tell my parents because i know that i need help and i want to get help but see the thing is if i don't get help i know that my head is going to take over and i know that something is going to take pleace weather it be killing myself or trying to kill myself can someone please give me any ideas to tell my parents that i am thinking about suicide. like when i get really mad at them and want to just wish that they weren't there i think about saying it then like "OMG and people think I'm just kidding when i say i seriously want to commit suicide" or something like that so and someone please give me some ideas on how i can get help and or how i can tell my parents so that they cab get me help?? thanks

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    Tell your parents

    Definitely tell your parents.
    But not when you're angry - then they might think you're just saying it to hurt them.
    Tell them when you are calm. Tell them you realize you need help, and that maybe they can get a professional therapist for you.


    Also, as for pros and cons: here's a big con:
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    Death is a final solution to temporary problems, whatever those problems are.
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    However bad you feel, it won't always be like this.

    And here is another thought: You have ETERNITY to be dead, and just a short while to live. Even if death turns out to be great (some kind of heavenly afterlife ), there is no reason to rush it. You will be there forever eventually. Instead, take advantage of the short time you have here.



    So tell your parents calmly, and do let us know how it goes so we know you're OK.

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    but see my parents arent the type that you can just go up to and say hey by the way i've been think of killing myself. i dont know how i can say it to them. but i also dont want to get treated like im a physoipathic person.

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    Sarah

    Give your parents a chance. They might surprise you! Don't come right out and say "hey guess what, I'm thinking about killing myself." First tell them about what's bothering you, and then tell them how much its bothering you. Then tell them you seriously don't think you want to go on anymore. I'm betting they're actually really good parents and they will respond. If not....how about another relative? Say an aunt or an uncle? Or even an elder brother or sister, or cousin? How about a best friend? Or maybe a teacher at school that you respect? Or your minister?

    Chukka is right! Suicide is not an answer to whatever problems your dealing with! Trust me, some day you will look back on these thoughts your having and you'll say to yourself "What was I thinking?" Life can seem difficult...and sometimes you need an escape. But suicide isn't it. The other 99% of your life will be great! Give yourself a chance to experience it! I'm glad you came to this forum! You need to talk about your feelings with others. And believe it or not, others around you want to help...they just don't know how much you're hurting inside...until you tell them.

    Sarah, it will be okay. you're not alone. Please keep in touch.

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    yea see thats really not going t help because i dont think that i will get the guts to talk to my parents about "this" but i really nbeed to do something about it

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    Sarah, What would you like to do about "this" ? Is there somebody else you can talk to? What is "this" that you're referring to? Sometimes it is easier to talk to a stranger. Send me a private message using this site, if you don't want to post on this public thread.

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    sarah , everybody has these rough patches in their life...do not feel like you are alone in this. 3 weeks ago when my g/f of 3 years broke up with me, i was devasted and that day i actually considered ending my life. i truly thought she was my soulmate...we planned on kids, marriage, future, etc. the part that hurt the most was she moved on really quickly and is with another guy which mixed in anger and jealousy with my depression.

    i had to realize tho that in my heart, things will get better with time, and they do get a little better every day. someone else will come along for me, and life will become bearable for you as well. just know that you are never alone in your thoughts and feelings. sites like these are great proofs of that

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    thanks but i still want to end my life!

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    Why, Sarah??

    Sarah, maybe it would help if you told me/us what was causing you to feel this way? If you don't want to put that in this forum, send me a private message (using link at the top).

    Don't do anything rash. You've got the rest of your life to die, but you only have this moment to live. Trust me, some day you will look back on this time in your life and say "what was I thinking."

    Also, do me a favor, look at some of the other people's posts looking for advise. Offer your thoughts to them and try to help them. I think you'll find you'll enjoy it!

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    hey sorry i havent gotten back to you! Anyways i dont care im just going to do it. theres no reason to say no dont yet there are alot to say yes.

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