dude123 Posted February 1, 2003 Share Posted February 1, 2003 Hi well you see I got a problem on my hands. There is this girl in my class. At first I did not see her as a person that I would be attracted to but as a friend that I could talk to about things. One day I was walking after school in the hallway with 2 of my friends. When I saw that girl from my class, I said a friendly hi. She came up to me and grabbed my arm then we slowly started walking to the door. She said stuff like hi, and then things like that. Next day at school, when I saw her in the hallway I said a friendly hi and then she said a hi back with a big smile on her face. I said hi and smiled back and then slowly walked to class. We sit next to each other in class and the same day in that class we talked a lot about many different things. As time went on I developed feelings for her. I began to like her a lot for the person that she was. She is smart fun to be around and a great person to talk to. One day I decided to ask her out to the movies. As I was talking to her I asked if she want to go to the movies on Friday. She replayed yes really fast with a nice big smile on her face. Then she gave me her number and address. Two days before the date I called her up and told her at what time I was gone pick her up, we talked for a long time on the phone and then the next day in school we talked some more. When I got to her house that Friday night, she invited me inside to meet her parents. I meet her parents and then we were on out way to the movies. When we got there I paid for our tickets and during the movie we talked most of the time. We both had a great time and as I was driving home me and her were talking again and she was telling me how sweet I am and all kids of stuff. When I got to her house I parked the car got out and walked her to the door. I called her up on Saturday and she was telling me that I was like the nicest person who she ever went out with. Monday in school I asked her if she had a boyfriend, well she told me yes she did and I was like what is going on in here. I go out with her and then after the whole thing she mentions that she has a boyfriend at her old school. I need good advice about this. Tell me what all of u guys think of this please help me out! Link to comment
mermayd Posted February 1, 2003 Share Posted February 1, 2003 Well, throughout this post, as I read, I'm thinking to myself, "this girl digs him!" then you throw out that curve-ball. She's taken?! What kind of a girl is this person? First off, I want to tell you that before you asked her out, you should have made sure that she was single...but the fact that the date went forward is entirely HER fault. (next time you know to ask first... ) AAnyway, I know you like her and I am sure she likes you as well. Maybe her realtionship is on the rocks, she may be unhappy. I would ask her that, see if she is willling to leave her current bf to be with you. However, be warned. Not all women are like this, but be aware that she may do the same to you. Now, I cant be a hypocrite on this subject bc my current bf that I am living with right now and that I love deeply, whom I would never do this to or cheat on with...well, this is how our relationship started. Both of us had someone else that we were with,( we never went on a date though, until both previous relationships were ended)...but when we saw eachother...we KNEW we were supposed to be together..and now we are living together...but sometimes, yes, it does cross my mind that "what if he meets someone in a class like he did me, and he leaves me for her like he left his ex for me?" It is just something to be aware of, but not to dwell on... So, I think you should move forward in your quest and see how interested she is in you...if she will leave her bf for you. if not, then you need to move on, if so, then things could work. The only difference in your situation from mine is that she agreed to date you while she was still attached...my bf and I didn't start anything new before we ended the first. What I think you need to be most cautious of is that she not arrange any dates while you two are together. Link to comment
dude123 Posted February 1, 2003 Author Share Posted February 1, 2003 Thanks for your advice Link to comment
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