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ok there is this girl at college and i think she is so great i think she likes me too but i dont know and i am chronicly shy. give me advice heres some background info. Im in the same Computer class at college as her at first i couldnt talk to her i just couldnt do it then my friends became her friends and now we are good friends. ill walk into class and sit next to her if there is a free seat but i dont know if this is too forward/obvious sitting next to her whenever i get a chance i think she likesd me becoz she will come and sit next to me sometimes and when we are on the computers and she finds a good website or something to get my attention she puts her hand on mine (can be for quite along time) and when we are walking to the pub or sumthing she will just grab my arm (you know like they do at weddings arms linked an stuff) and today i realized that i may be in love with her but i dont know how she feels. we were sitting eating lunch and she said to me i cant lose weight, i dont know why she said it but i was thinking you dont need to lose weight u are gorgeous but i couldnt bring myself to say it. i was giving her a lift home and i was thinking of bringing up the weight thing by saying something like" you know earlier when u said u were fat etc i think your gorgoues and dont need to lose weight" and i was so close to sayiung it but i just couldnt and i dont know why??? anywayz we arrived at her house and she put her hand on my thigh and said thanx for the lift.... i dont know if she is just really friendly or what but she is not like that around the other guys in our class.... i dont know what to do

thanx for any help/advice etc

DenZal

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Yes, she's interested!!!!

Now - what to do: I realize you're shy about approaching her (I've been where you're at, trust me!), but a little embarrassment or even the pain of rejection is far less than thirty years of saying to yourself "what if". Next time in class, just ask her if she'd like to have dinner. It doesn't have to be a grand production, you two already know each other, and clearly she's comfortable with you. Just be polite and honest. Of course, honest doesn't mean you have to tell her you've fallen madly in love with her before you've had a single date - If things progress, it'll be obvious to her. Just take it slow and easy, and always RESPECT her!

Good Luck.