Teeps Posted January 2, 2003 Share Posted January 2, 2003 I'm in a wonderful relationship with a guy whom I love very much. He loves me too, but has a terrible fear of the future (commitment in particular). He always says stuff like, "I can't see myself ever being married." or "I am not the marriage type," things like that. Often I wonder if I should end the relationship, and have even discussed breaking up with him openly. He gets very scared and says he doesn't want to lose me. We then make up, and things go well for a while, then the commitment phobia rears its head again. It is like a cycle. Things are good, then they're not. It's all because of his fear of commitment, because he knows how much I want the whole marriage thing (and kids, which is another problem for us since he doesn't think he wants them either). I wonder what I should do! Should I end it and risk ending the best relationship I've ever had, or stick it out and hope he gets over his fear of commitment? Link to comment
somedude Posted January 3, 2003 Share Posted January 3, 2003 if you love him and you know he truly loves you i would stick it out...just give him time to "mature" because he isnt to that level yet which is sad if he loves you..but i say keep going Link to comment
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