I didnt want to move in too fast cuz shes kind of upset now

Alright, here it goes. I met this girl through my friend, and shes like rally nice and everything. But she started going out with this kid right after I met her( about 3 weeks ago) and well now he moved far away I guess. and I really like her but I didnt want to move in too fast or anything cuz shes kind of upset right now(who wouldnt be). But anyways, I talk to her online all the time, and I call her and stuff.. but it seems like every time we actually go and hang out we really cant find anything to do, and really dont have much to talk about. I dont know like what to talk about because I dont know her that good yet. But I do really really like her. does anyone have any advice on something to kinda break the ice and lighten up the night. and also she really likes that show Crossing Over. so for Christmas I got a copy of Crossing over the book, and I got it signed by John Edwards. I was thinking about asking her out on christmas. I thought that this would give her some time to get over her old boyfriend. I am pretty sure that she likes me too, because like so far we havea lot in common. and I dont know.. I really dont know how to describe it. anyone with any advice for me would be greatly appreciated

what u need to do is first find something else to do and don;t spend much time on her why i am saying this is it because i don;t want u her to be your gf. no!!!!!!!!! from what i heard u call her and chat with her it seem like u do it everyday. stop doing that call a girl only two or three time a week. why am i saying this i will explain to u later. now let me give u an example pretend a girl really like u and she keep calling. and give u what ever u want, treating u like a king, even if u like that girl at first u will get tired of her after. u will think hey this girl really like me if i can get her to like me maybe i can get other girls. now do u know what i mean by stop calling her.

1.u are proving to her u dont; have a life and all u do all day is talk on a phone.

2.u sound like u desprately trying to get her no one like. and what a girl hate the most is a guy how bow down to her and treat her like a queen.

3. now u know that what u need to do is focus on something else this she will think hey this guy doesn;t pay much attention and then will make her chase after u.

there is a ton of stuff i wanted ot say but i am kinda lazy right now to write it all down but if u have any question just ask me.