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need advice im being called the ex's name


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I need advice badly.Im at my first relationship with a woman.The lady i love was in a relationship where there was abuse from her ex.They stayed together until the ex had money to leave.The problem is that the lady I love is constantly calling me the ex name wheither she is angry, frustrated, or romantic.She said she doesnt love her ex anymore.I dont mind butI need to know how to help her.We havent been intimite yet but she is affraid sher will say the ex name.I keep telling her that she moght still have feeling for her ex despite the abuse she encountered.She denies it.Any advice,i m not leaving her ,i want to help her.

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  • 6 months later...

I've been through this. My mother-in-law is constantly calling me by the name of the first wife. And my husband has been known to slip on occasion, too. It's not the worst thing in the world, nor is it a sign that she is still hung up on her ex. It's probably a force of habit, and nothing more insidious than that.

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