i need to get out with this feeling.......

what should i do folks? i fall inlove with my bestfriend, it really hurts cause i fall inlove with the same sex. He is a family man with one kid and i dont know how can i get out with him. I really love him more than myself....... Please help

Hey. i know what you're going through. I fell in love with one of my best friends..of the same sex and i didn't know how to tell them. I still don't know how to...but i think i have some advice and i hope it helps.. first of all i think you should be honest and tell him because it still kills me inside that i dont have the courage to tell the one i love. and second you should explain why you feel that way and have those feelings. And even though it may hurt alot you should tell him that you will understand if he may not want to talk for a while. But if he is your best friend then he should also understand your point of view and how you feel. The fact that he is a family man makes it harder, but i think this is the right thing. I hope i helped...sorry if i didn't. bye!