committment phobia

my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years is perfect, however i find myself getting scared of getting too close and giving myself completely to him emotionally. i had a 4 year relationship prior to this and it ended badly, so i feel i'm hesitant to give myself. my insecurities are beginning to hurt our relationship - please help! how do i get over this?

Listen don't make the mistakes that I have. There are no guarantees in life. You get what you pay for.. are you getting this? If you spend to much time worrying about the past then you aren't being fair to the present! Don't live your life worry about what you can and can't control. Take the plunge and be happy! Talk to him about your feelings, let him help and understand you. He can't "prove" his love to you, you're going to have to trust. If you can't do that then your wasting his and your own time. Trust me. I have turned away more good people because I had such fear that I have deep regrets. Do you also want them?

Everyone is different look for differences not similarities. Don't feel like you can read every situation. Let yourself be free.