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Thread: Dated a girl for 2 months and then engaged to someone else 2 months later

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    Originally Posted by Billie28
    She tells people what they want to hear in order to get what she wants.

    What did you have in common with her?
    You only knew her for 60 days?
    In that time how many dates did you have?
    I don’t think you knew her at all?

    And really at the end of the day does it matter??
    I know that at the end of the day non of this matters. Would be nice to make sense of it though.

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    If someone comes on that fast and strong, then they don't even know you well enough to love you, so they're just in love with some fantasy they've created 'about' you.

    It's usually a short eggshell walk before you say or do something human enough to pop that fantasy bubble.

    Fast flames often die out pretty quickly. I'd beware of investing in those to avoid getting burned. Whether or not the lavish praise is sincere doesn't matter--it's someone showing you lousy judgment, and who wants that?

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    Originally Posted by BrokenGator
    They didn't know each other previously. She met him around the same time we met.
    Then she is extremely impulsive and doesn't think things through before diving in.

    That is not a characteristic you want in a long-term partner. Be glad she won't be your future headache to deal with.

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    You dodged a bullet. Pity the fiancé-come-lately.
    Originally Posted by BrokenGator
    I know that at the end of the day non of this matters. Would be nice to make sense of it though.

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    Exactly, Cat.

    "It's usually a short eggshell walk before you say or do something human enough to pop that fantasy bubble."



    As fiancé-come.lately will sadly find out.

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    I think she probably was already in a relationship with this guy for quite a while and was flirting with you on the side. I already feel sorry for her fiancé as he has no idea what she does behind his back.

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