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Thread: Dating girl and missing my ex

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    How do you expect to move on from your ex if you are still in contact?

    Stop using this poor girl if you are not over your ex. That's terrible.

    End it with the new girl and go no contact with the ex.

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    Originally Posted by Andrina
    You can't open the front door to new possibilities when you have your foot fully stuck in the back door--a past that should be kept there. If it was her that cheated, she has a poor moral compass and you need to stop communicating, because hoping she'll miraculously become a moral person isn't guaranteed. You won't get closure until you block and delete. Does your gf know you communicate with an ex?

    If it was you that cheated, you haven't learned any lessons, because you're communicating with an ex you still pine for. That's emotional cheating when you have a gf.

    You're holding the key to relationship success. I suggest you start using it.
    Good point!

    Address your lack of character, Peter! You are still a lying, selfish, cheater ! Stop messing with people's lives!

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    You have decided that you want to be a cheater.

    No decent woman will want to be with you as long as you choose this behavior.

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    So they are both FWB and once you have sex with girl 2 you miss girl 1. But then when you were with girl 1 she was too boring.

    The problem is you don't like either of them. You just want new sex for excitement.
    Originally Posted by petar90
    Ex was very warm person good sex but a little to calm for me. That mistress had good sense of humor and good sex once a week but when we sleep together more often i feel anxyiety but i cant let her go-

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    Get rid of your ex! Block her on everything and don't talk to her anymore. You can't move on because you still keep in contact with her. You need to go no contact to be able to move on. If you're not that into the girl you're dating now then don't hurt her and just end the relationship with her. Get over your ex first and then start dating again when you're ready.

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