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    Platinum Member Rose Mosse's Avatar
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    Originally Posted by janut1
    I enjoyed the interview. He said he liked me but had 2 more people to meet. He said someone would reach out this week but nothing yet. Of course Id take it if its offered to me..
    That sounds promising. Did you reach out by any chance to thank him for his time after the interview? Fingers crossed for you.

    Hang in there. It's bananas, I know, with everything going on. You got this.

    If you are feeling anxiety or panic attacks or overwhelmed, what used to help me were either writing or breathing exercises. Yes, basic, I know. But they were simple and tried and true for me. Sometimes I'd write. Sometimes I'd just breathe and be aware of my heartbeat and acknowledge any racing thoughts, worries, fears etc. Especially when hurt and anger or fear involves family members, it's not easy and it can feel like your walls are closing in. Just remember that an upswing and a new morning will come around with new activities. Stay with it.

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    I got a email that told me I did not get the job. Uggh. I sent out a bunch of applications today. Somethings got to give!

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    I'm sorry to hear this. That's good that you are still applying. Hang in there.

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    Originally Posted by Rose Mosse
    I'm sorry to hear this. That's good that you are still applying. Hang in there.
    Same here. Every little thing's gonna be all right. (from a song I love and I sing it to myself when I'm feeling overwhelmed, so I share it here with you -it helps me some!)

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    Hang in there, Janut1, I'm rooting for ya!

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    Originally Posted by janut1
    But if I can pay 6 -12 months in advance they might allow me to move in.
    Can you hold onto the month-to-month on your current place until your inheritance comes through?

    Have you applied at temp agencies?

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    Originally Posted by catfeeder
    Can you hold onto the month-to-month on your current place until your inheritance comes through?

    Have you applied at temp agencies?
    I cannot afford the rent here on my own. And if I do stay my inheritance wouldn't last long if I had to pay for a year here.

    No, I have not attempted temp agencies yet. That is on my todo list.

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    Originally Posted by janut1
    I cannot afford the rent here on my own. And if I do stay my inheritance wouldn't last long if I had to pay for a year here.
    Okay, well month-to-month is not a year. The inheritance would give you the money to secure a more suitable place.

    Originally Posted by janut1
    I have not attempted temp agencies yet. That is on my todo list.
    If you want to start working quickly, I'd put some focus onto this. It can be a placeholder paycheck while you seek a more permanent position.

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    Sorry this is happening. Do you enjoy living alone or do you feel better in a family setting?

    Since your divorce, have your kids lived in the home you sold to your ex-husband?

    Is it the money holding you up or the overall confusion of how and with whom live?

    Take some time to reflect on what your ideal living circumstances might be.

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    Wiseman. How do you know about my home and kids? Do I know you? Lol

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