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    Originally Posted by Batya33
    I'd text as little as possible. This is a person you met once and you have your first real date tomorrow, right?
    Yeah we met a couple of nights ago and talked for 5-6 hours. Both seemed to be having fun.

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    Pecks can still be hot. And she agreed to a second date. I think you're doing fine. Constant texting is annoying and insecure. Get to know her with conversations in person - the through texting.

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    Take it slow...feel great to hear though.
    Keep some mystery around you & doing your own things as well.

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    Really pleased for you! Hope the second date goes well!

    I have my fingers crossed for you!

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    be kool and a little mysterious/aloof....getting too eager scares them off.

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    Second date went really nice.

    We met up at a place then went to another place and had a ton of fun. We ended up back at her place and we just talked and enjoyed each other’s company, it was really refreshing. There was some making out and we ended up cuddling and falling asleep together. No funny business but I was honestly happy just cuddling it felt really comfortable.

    She invited me to a Halloween party she is having this weekend. I’ll have to check in on the details of that and I won’t know anyone else there but could be fun. Not sure if she’s the type that won’t ever text first, or maybe I should just wait until closer to Saturday to check in with her. Funny, would make things a lot more comfortable if she texted here or there but maybe in time. Or maybe she knows what she’s doing lol and has me wondering because of it.

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    Sounds like a good date and have fun at the party!

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    Sounds like she likes you a lot. Go to the party and have fun.

    Please don't get hung up on texting as an indication of anything. If you want to say something or share something, just do it. Don't play games. Some people are not into texting much. Also, women at large are told over and over not to lead early on and let the man do the reaching out. You've just had one meet up and one date. Don't get ahead of yourself and just enjoy the process of getting to know her. Basically, don't need to check in every day, but do show some consistent interest/communication in between the dates.

    Her inviting you to the party is a huge green light that she is really into you. Like what more do you really need?

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    Sounds like a great second date (the sort of date I'd call perfect).

    So pleased for you.

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    Thanks for the input!

    I texted her thanking her for another great night and she responded “ I have fun with you”

    Very nice to read that.

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