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Thread: He broke up with me while pregnant

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    You need to get to your doctor for medical pregnancy and mental health care.

    Did he decide all this about not loving you and finding himself after you told him you were pregnant?
    Originally Posted by Yzel
    Weve been in a dreamed relationship for 6 years now and 4 months ago I realized I was pregnant.

    Now he just hes not happy coming over home, that hes not sure that he loves or that I make him happy

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    We have never had fights like this. We have had depressions on our own nd it made us reevaluate the relationship those times. But never to the point where we are now

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    I dont know if it comes before the pregnancy. He says he has been holding it off for quite a while now and that it just became a snowball

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    Im 30 and he is 26. We broke up before but vwry early in our relationship. And yes, i Will definitely have the kid and will have to live by my own

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    [QUOTE=SherrySher;7246299]It's not a matter of if he wants it, or not. He is now just as responsible for this baby, as you are. He should be there for you and be supportive, and he should definitely be there for you financially.

    It's possible that he is just upset right now. Do you think he met someone else? Has he been having any bouts of depression, etc? Have you had fights like this before?[
    /We have never had fights like this. We have had depressions on our own nd it made us reevaluate the relationship those times. But never to the point where we are now

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    I'm so sorry he is doing this. I am sure it is making your head spin. I suggest you turn all your concern for him around. Focus all that energy on your health and the health of your baby. You have to be strong because you're a mother and he is being selfish. This is showing you a great deal about his character, his mental health, his maturity etc.

    I personally would be mad at him for doing this, hurting me, stressing me out. I'd leave him alone. He may come to his senses and at that point, for the baby's sake, I'd give him a chance to make things right. But there is no way I would beg this guy to be my partner or a dad to our child. He will be responsible financially, but he will not be wishy washy to my kid or to their mother (me).

    Find your strength. If you tolerate this behavior now or coddle him, you are setting up the opportunity for this to become a pattern in your relationship, which will not only be horrible for you, but also a terrible example for the child.

    You gotta think about things for two now. Its not just you anymore. You must make good choices and take steps that support the life you want, based on who this guy is, not what you wish he could be.

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    Do you live together? Do you work? Does he support you? Sorry to say but your relationship was quite conflicted and on/off all along. He doesn't seem interested in commitment or settling down at 26. He should have been using condoms.

    This latest news seems like a complication that he did not want. It's sad, but you need to take care of your health. Get tp a doctor about your depression and pregnancy.
    Originally Posted by Yzel
    Im 30 and he is 26. We broke up before but vwry early in our relationship. And yes, i Will definitely have the kid and will have to live by my own

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    We have been living together for 6 years and we both decided to have a baby. Now he just came up with all of this. I guess he got scared.

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    Sorry to hear that. Is he moving out? Do you have a place to stay?
    Originally Posted by Yzel
    We have been living together for 6 years and we both decided to have a baby. Now he just came up with all of this. I guess he got scared.

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    Im planning to move out and come back to the apartment once he leaves

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