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    There's a lot to unpack here...

    In short, I would just end it if I were you. It sounds like he just wants to hook up. And even if he did want more, the fact that he contradicts himself so much would be a red flag anyway. Cut him loose before you get even more attached and get hurt. Getting Ready for a First Date

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    Originally Posted by parisiangurl
    I'm not sure what II am doing. We don't share social media together.
    Then block him on your phone.

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    Originally Posted by parisiangurl
    He made me believe that a older woman is what he wanted.
    What did he say that led you to believe this?

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    He can't play you unless you want that also. If you think he is insincere, you need to keep it for sex only and not get emotionally attached or expect anything from him.

    He's not manipulating anyone. You wanted sex, he wanted sex, it's that simple. If you want a relationship, he has been very clear that he does not see that happening with you.
    And someone's insecurities aren't a measure of their feelings for you.
    It's just a reflection of their insecurities.
    Don't confuse the two.

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    He also lied about some of his life. But told me the truth about some things the last time we were together. Another thing he said is that women don't like to be told what to do.

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    Yeah I am remembering that not to confise the two. He's a very dominant alpha male.

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    He told me that he prefers dating and being with older women. It came from his mouth.

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    Tried calling him today but it kept going to voicemail. I wanted to let him know that I left my sunglasses at his place. Finally I sent him a text. Ashamed to say that I told him that I miss him ugh

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    Are you from different cultures, socioeconomic/educational backgrounds? It sounds like s purely sexual relationship, which is fine.
    Originally Posted by parisiangurl
    He also lied about some of his life. But told me the truth about some things the last time we were together. Another thing he said is that women don't like to be told what to do.

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    Btw do you think he is avoiding me? He does sleep he works graveyard

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