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    My husband text me today to say he could get posted right back here to fill his current bossís position. I want to move on. My son wants to stay. I have become very meh about the location and feel rather done with it. We have been here 10 years. But if we go we would be going in March.

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    That is a hard decision and I'm sorry you have to make this kind of decision now! Would doing a pros-cons list from a practical standpoint help?

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    Originally Posted by Batya33
    That is a hard decision and I'm sorry you have to make this kind of decision now! Would doing a pros-cons list from a practical standpoint help?
    I am not sure how long we have to make a decision I guess I will know more when he is out of class for the day.

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    I'm confused with this bit: " he could get posted right back here?" Where is he?

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    I'm confused with this bit: " he could get posted right back here?" Where is he?
    He is on course right now some place else, we are still here. But he has the opportunity to stay here as his current Commanding Officer here is REALLY pushing to retain him because his current boss here is posting out July 2021.

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    Difficult to consider moving during covid, to where and what if not the place you are?

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    Any idea where else he might be posted to?

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    Originally Posted by itsallgrand
    Any idea where else he might be posted to?
    Yes, where he is right now. Much bigger base and the surrounding area has a much bigger city.

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    What is better for his career? Is the salary better?

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    What is better for his career? Is the salary better?
    His salary is only better due to his position and rank not the place . No matter where he goes he gets paid the same. It would depend what experience they want him to have . Right now heís only in training for his new position they are pretty much going to decide where theyíre sending us.

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