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Thread: URGENT ADVICE NEEDED: Suicide and ow to stay consistent with cutting family off?

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    URGENT ADVICE NEEDED: Suicide and ow to stay consistent with cutting family off?

    I was cut off by my family. I posted about the situation on other threads.

    In short: my family (mainly my mother) doesnt want me around. However I'm coping with a sexual assault and I want someone around but that isnt a realistic desire for my situation.

    I am struggling with this SEVERELY. And although I'm getting help I still go home to an empty apartment and I'm craving love.

    That mindset is placing me in a position where I'm itching to contact family even though I was told not to make contact. I spend 60% of my life fighting the urge to reach out even though I'm not supposed to. I feel very alone

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    A therapist can help me but a therapist can't hold me when I need it. I was told not to contact my family by my mother. But I spend majority of this time fighting the urge to reach out. Whenever I get good news I want to contact my family despite them telling me not to. (I talk myself our of it) How can I cope with this or curve this desire?

    ALSO...A BIT OFF TOPIC..
    How can I cope with losing material things that hold meaning for me? I moved out the other day but I had to bring only what I could carry to my new apartment and I had to leave a lot of sentimental stuff that will probably be thrown away. I had a photo of my late grandmother, some art projects and a bunch of other things that I bought myself over the years. I don't have any clothing to wear to job interviews and I'm taking a giant financial loss because the belongs I bought myself will be thrown out. I was able to locate a food bank so I'm set with that but all my clothing I do have is dirty and I worry about my ability to present myself in a job interview. Does anyone know of any government organizations or non profits that can help me with getting living necessities? I'm in my early 20s and enrolled in school if that helps.

    I've been wondering if life is even worth it

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    I am so sorry, love. I too was sexually abused. Part of my family was not supportive. You can message me on here if you would like .

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    rchubn... I may be remembering someone else's history, but was your mom extremely abusive to you growing up?

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    I am not sure of your country so I am not sure of resources.

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    Originally Posted by maritalbliss86
    rchubn... I may be remembering someone else's history, but was your mom extremely abusive to you growing up?
    Yes, that's me.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    I am not sure of your country so I am not sure of resources.
    I live in the United States in Washington State if that helps. Thank you for your kind words

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    Why can't you get the rest of your belongings? It's your property.

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    Is there a state community office near you? Does your college have a services office ?

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Why can't you get the rest of your belongings? It's your property.
    Can you get a police man to go with you to get your stuff?

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