You don't want a woman who corresponded with an inmate for romance or because she is afraid of dating available men. I would back away from her and focus on YOU alone -- work through your probation, get a job, stay clean and elevate your circumstances so you don't do whatever stupid thing that wound you up in jail again. There wll be other women, but you have to better yourself to meet them, because they don't want to date someone fresh out of jail --- if jail was 5 years behind you and you improve your life, then maybe. But in the meantime, you will only attract women with murky boundaries.