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    As everyone said in your last thread: move on!

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    It wasn't about space. She broke up with you for other reasons. Either there was/is someone else, you grew apart, you were fighting too much, she lost interest, etc.

    But there was another reason and it had nothing to do with whether you gave her two weeks space, or more.

    Her attachment to this relationship has left, as heart breaking as it will be for you, she's already emotionally gone. It's best that you accept that and try to move on too.

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    Threads have been merged. (Pertains to same topic).

    OP, nothing has changed. At all. Let it go already and move on.

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    Stop reading that get your ex back material. Short and sweet: Can you spell Restraining Order?

    No it's not about "what your heart wants." It's about her and her parents, friends and people telling her to stay far away from a possessive controlling menace.

    Get a grip on yourself. This ego driven behavior of "winning someone back", is dangerous for you.

    If you keep thinking like this you will have a tough time in life. She was right to end things and block you.
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    now I am blocked on everything.

    that no contact rule?

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    It wasn't about space. She broke up with you for other reasons. Either there was/is someone else, you grew apart, you were fighting too much, she lost interest, etc.

    But there was another reason and it had nothing to do with whether you gave her two weeks space, or more.

    Her attachment to this relationship has left, as heart breaking as it will be for you, she's already emotionally gone. It's best that you accept that and try to move on too.
    Exactly. You pushing didn't help, but it wasn't the cause. As much as you want to get her back, you can't make someone do something if they aren't in it. She is moving on, you need to as well.

    Realize that moving on is a process that takes time. It's okay if you still miss her. It's okay to think about wanting her back sometimes. Sometimes that hope is what gets us through the rough days. But there is a difference between thinking and actively trying. You do need to stay away and respect her wishes. In the meantime, it needs to be about you. When you are happy with yourself, content and confident, doing the things you enjoy, you will find yourself missing her less and less. It won't be overnight, but it will happen. Believe in yourself and keep moving forward, one day at a time. You can do it.

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