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Thread: Together 11 years and now done and blocked

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    He blocked you.. good- The trash took itself out ;)

    All of this crap has caused you damages, I hope you see? You NEED to have peace internally and be okay again-which will take some time. Having ANYTHING to do with this guy- would be the worst thing for you to do.

    Like others have said.. When he was caught cheating on you that first time- shoulda been when you walked away- forever.
    Everything after that just caused you to fall more. :(

    So- have nothing more to do with him. Be done.
    Respect yourself. And try to see that no one deserves such treatment/behaviour.

    And, NO. We cannot be 'friends; with an Ex. Not unless or until we know we are over them.
    Just be done with it all.
    Accept.. Heal. Move on.

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    This doesn’t make any sense ...

    “one day i bumped into him near where i lived and he said the feelings were still there so we got back together eventually he moved back in but the trust on my part was shattered even though he tried to gain my trust certain things triggered it and we would argue plus we hardly went out and i never met his family or friends”


    He moved back in??? Under whose terms and conditions? How can someone just move into your property without you agreeing to it? And why would you agree to it if you didn’t trust him?

    You are only accountable for your own actions .
    And your actions were to allow someone you did not trust move into your home.
    And accept not ever meeting his family or friends.

    He is gone. Not that you ever knew him. So no great loss.
    But continuing forward , have you any plans to not make this great mistake again?
    Why allow a stranger into your home? And be upset that they left?

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    Originally Posted by Billie28
    This doesn’t make any sense ...

    “one day i bumped into him near where i lived and he said the feelings were still there so we got back together eventually he moved back in but the trust on my part was shattered even though he tried to gain my trust certain things triggered it and we would argue plus we hardly went out and i never met his family or friends”


    He moved back in??? Under whose terms and conditions? How can someone just move into your property without you agreeing to it? And why would you agree to it if you didn’t trust him?

    You are only accountable for your own actions .
    And your actions were to allow someone you did not trust move into your home.
    And accept not ever meeting his family or friends.

    He is gone. Not that you ever knew him. So no great loss.
    But continuing forward , have you any plans to not make this great mistake again?
    Why allow a stranger into your home? And be upset that they left?
    He didnt just move in without me agreeing to it! We thought we would try again and i let him move in as he was trying to show me he changed , CLEARLY he hadnt..

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    Why were you okay with being a secret?

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    Update after 5 weeks of no contact he called last night to say hes going to drop off something he had of mine this morning..That never happened and he hasn't contacted to say why or he can't make it ect...What the hell is he playing at?

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    He was probably drunk again .

    Block and delete him and all his people from all your social media. Change your locks.

    Look into Al-Anon to understand your role in this:
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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    He was probably drunk again .

    Block and delete him and all his people from all your social media. Change your locks.

    Look into Al-Anon to understand your role in this:
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    I agree with dubya

    drunk, bread crumbs, loser behavior.

    do you really need the stuff? if it were me, I wouldn't want anything I kept at my ex's. Except maybe if it was my grandma's jewelry.... anything else is completely replaceable. Just like this guy.

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    exactly, if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you. Sad, I feel your pain 100%

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