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Why do we act as completely two different couples online and in real life?


nirm2009

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Why do we act pretty much as completely two different couples online and in real life? Me and her we get soo edgy, mad at each other, annoyed, scold at each other, cry, block each other on contacts, WhatsApp, fb, etc etc. We both have like a list of promises on each other and we keep breaking themm..

 

But once we see each other, once we meet, we're this fun couple having loadss of fun togetherr going out to eat, to drink, travel around, joke around, make fun of each other, laugh, make out in hotels, visit cinemas, amusement parks, museums, you name it. Rareeely do we get into any quarrels in real life, likee never.

 

Why? What's the cause of this 𝘥𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺? Have y'all experienced it too? Do you know how to overcome this?

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It's because social media is social and it involves third parties and your relationships or friendships to them. Any time other parties are involved there's a potential for conflict if you don't agree on some pretty basic ground rules. For example, do both of you or does one of you keep in contact with exes? Are there any issues with family members or people of the opposite sex? Competition, jealousy, rivalry, misunderstandings?

 

When you're alone, those third parties aren't present and you're both focused on each other. in the early dating stages you are only spending time with each other. Have you met each others' friends and family members? It's not hard to imagine that it's easier to stay on track as a couple and treat each other with respect if you don't have differences in the ground rules mentioned above at the forefront.

 

Do you disagree with certain topics? What are they?

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“We both have like a list of promises on each other and we keep breaking themm.. ”

 

There is your answer and you said it yourself.

 

No respect for each other.

 

In person you both let these things slide , I’m guessing because you don’t actially spend much time together in person?

 

But actions when NOT in each other’s company mean more.

 

You don’t like each other that much. So why pursue it?

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