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    To further add, when we first got together she would call every morning just to say hello, she would turn up at mine just so we could hang out whereas now it's a lot less frequent

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    Everything

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    Oh well, not much you can do about it . She's got to take care of her kids and herself first.

    Are you worried she's still seeing this guy she had sleep over for play dates?

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    He didn't sleep over, she said how she realised it wouldn't have been right.
    I'm a little worried about it but not as much as I was before.
    When I spoke with her about it she said if I saw them together you would see there is nothing there like that between them. She also stated how she just knows nothing would ever happen with them that way as it would jeopardize the friendship. She also found him to much of a workaholic, too strict on his kid and they clashed too much.

    So yes it niggles a little but not like it did

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    Originally Posted by Rb1980
    I told her that I was concerned all my efforts at making it work would be for nothing as she didn't seem to reciprocate in any way.
    Well, that is concerning.

    Can you elaborate on what you mean? For example, is it always you reaching out? Scheduling dates? How often do you two see each other now, and how often do you communicate in between dates?

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    I call/text her more than she does me but sometimes that flips the other way.
    We see each other once or twice a week and video call in between.

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    She's the custodial parent?

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    Yeah, the dad walked out so she does it all

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    And your kids mother has them most of the time.

    It sounds like you are bored and lonely and can't appreciate the burdens others have.
    Originally Posted by Rb1980
    Yeah, the dad walked out so she does it all

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    You could well be right there!

    I appreciate being down her list of priorities but perhaps I have never fully understood what that would mean.

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