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Thread: Is it silly to feel totally outclassed by another guy like this?

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    Platinum Member Rose Mosse's Avatar
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    Originally Posted by poorlittlefish
    Ha, yes, me too - for the simple reason that I bet I wouldn't find him attractive. Over the years I've lost count of the number of times someone has raved about a guy being incredibly gorgeous and when I've seen him I couldn't have disagreed more. Looks are highly subjective and it would be a very dull world if everyone found exactly the same thing attractive. Plus, for me at least, the overtly good looking guys are likely to be players and I wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone who attracts so much attention and adoration wherever they go, so I'd give them a wide berth. There is far more to being attractive than your outward looks.
    Hey hey now. Hate the game, not the player. ;)

    I hear you though.

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    I think it's time to reexamine some of your values.
    So true.

    Don't you want to be a man of substance? A man who prides himself on who he is and what he has succeeded at in life? (goals, values, dreams, etc) that is hopefully much more than just a looks competition?
    I hope that you will change your focus and concentrate more on what is going on in the inside. Looks are superficial and they don't add up to a lot.

    Personality, what kind of heart you have, what motivations you have, goals, where you want to go in this life, what kinds of things you want to achieve that will hopefully make this world a better place. Those are all so much more important and much more valuable.

    As a man, you still need to have a lot of growth in terms of wisdom, bettering yourself and maturing more in your mind and spirit.
    I truly do hope that you will change your priorities as to what matters in this world and was is just fluff.

    Your body is only a vessel that houses your spirit. Your spirit is what truly matters, is what is most valuable, and what you should be focusing on.

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    This has to be one of the most shallow threads I have other read. OP, it may be time to focus more on your character and value system.

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