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Thread: He says I'm moaning & I want to know what you think

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    Hopefully you'll get marriage therapy before the child comes. The answer of course is not spraying your husband's food.

    You seem embroiled in a lot of right-fighting without facts and without appropriate or productive actions.

    This will get a lot worse when you bring a child Into a household of conflicts and contempt.

    This is not about animals. It's about your poor marriage and poor communication.

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    Well said Billie. Such common sense!

    "Do you not realise that soap will do a better job to kill coronavirus?
    Alcohol is a mere substitute (but not as effective ) when soap and water is not readily available.

    Does the spray you use even have 70% alcohol?

    And the cats bowls have been in the house pre covid lol

    Is he super anxious about covid and Misinformed perhaps?

    Just wash the cat bowls and stop wasting time and money on useless sprays.

    The reason why soap is the most effective cleaning product against covid is because the virus has an outer lipid layer (fat) and anything that dissolves fat will render the virus inactive.
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    And I can only concur with Sherry.

    "You are at fault for picking a man with these issues, he is at fault for his bad temper, belittling ways and just being a moron. "

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    Except they are not using Lysol to clean the cat dishes. They are spraying it on THEIR plastic deliveries too close to the cat food. It isn’t about cleaning the cat bowls

    “Due to corona we have been disinfecting plastic deliveries before we bring them fully into the house. My husband, now on multiple occasions keeps saying antibac right over the cats food and water bowls” (from the posters original post)

    It is the fact he’s not being careful where he sprays .

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    This isn't about cats or Lysol. It's about chronic arguing and marital conflicts.

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    No sign of the OP.

    But anyway:

    "My husband has always been what I would call unreasonable at times (his close family are also aware of this temperament). "

    You married this unreasonable person, OP. Why would you do that? Serious question.

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    So if your kid does something you don't like, will he tell you to get rid of the kid? I'm not sure where you are, but every restaurant where I am must wear gloves and masks, especially the servers, packers and delivery drivers. I live in an epicenter for COVID-19, and never once disinfected the take out boxes. There is zero proof contamination comes from takeout, or we'd all be sick. Maybe time to scale back on takeout, or stop disinfecting the boxes - just don't eat out of them if that's the issue. Put them into your own plates and bowls. And move the cat's bowls.

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    Originally Posted by tattoobunnie
    So if your kid does something you don't like, will he tell you to get rid of the kid? I'm not sure where you are, but every restaurant where I am must wear gloves and masks, especially the servers, packers and delivery drivers. I live in an epicenter for COVID-19, and never once disinfected the take out boxes. There is zero proof contamination comes from takeout, or we'd all be sick. Maybe time to scale back on takeout, or stop disinfecting the boxes - just don't eat out of them if that's the issue. Put them into your own plates and bowls. And move the cat's bowls.
    At our local fast food place -high end fast food -they wear gloves and also touch their hair and faces etc. So I don't disinfect the boxes or wrappers. I handle them with a barrier like a piece of paper towel and repackage them at home. I don't eat from the containers. There is no or very remote risk from the food but more so -still lower than other forms- from the containers particularly if the handlers are sick and not practicing clean procedures.

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    If there is a concern about food contamination, reheat in the oven. I mean, I'm not worried about people touching hair or their face. They've got their orifices covered. Masks in New York have been working out well with less than 1% infection rate here. So far, so good.

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    nevermind...............
    Last edited by Batya33; 08-10-2020 at 07:06 PM.

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    Deleted because it had nothing to do with the OP or the topic. Sorry, OP, if you ever come back I apologize for hijacking!

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