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    Help!

    I have started having some stronger feelings for someone I probably shouldn't, and she is having the same feelings. It started out physical and it's turned into more. Now we are fighting with should we keep going or try to stop it. It will upset alot of people around us, but the situation being what it is we are stuck being around eachother alot. We've stop having sex for right now, but the other feelings are just getting stronger. We are both trying are best to fight it. That said, should we continue to try cutting it off or stop fighting and see where it goes Getting Ready for a First Date

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    Who objects to your dating and why?
    Originally Posted by 80guy
    I have started having some stronger feelings for someone I probably shouldn't. It started out physical and it's turned into more.

    It will upset alot of people around us, but the situation being what it is we are stuck being around eachother alot.

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    If it doesn't feel good, you should probably stop. Are both of you partnered? (Ie. your partners not aware)

    Live simply. It doesn't have to be this way.

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    It feels better then good and no we are both single. We both agree we are happier together. The huge problem being she is a member of my ex's family. It started with a drunk night and has slowly turned in to something else. It's hard for both of us because we both have trouble finding people we click with and now we are clicking with eachother.

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    Clarify -- is this like an ex wife's sister or is this the cousin of someone you dated?

    The first is a problem, the second one is really not.

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    Enforce healthy boundaries. Remain polite, respectful and kind yet keep a safe, intelligent distance.

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    Ex wife's family yes but not her sister

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    The biggest problem is she is staying with me, so other then sleeping and work we are around eachother constantly.

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    Why is all this so problematic? It's only a problem if you want it to be. Is this a big secret?

    It sounds like her being from your ex's family is not the real problem but the relationship, fighting moving in way to soon are the problem.

    Sounds like your not over your ex and she's a rebound that evolved from hookups.
    Originally Posted by 80guy
    The biggest problem is she is staying with me, so other then sleeping and work we are around eachother constantly.

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    who is this person? your ex's daughter?

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