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Thread: Is my partner a serial cheat?

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    I found out 2 days ago it happened 7 months ago Getting Ready for a First Date

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    Just wanted to throw in some support. You're thoroughly peeved and rightly so. His behavior is shady, creepy, and completely selfish.

    I'm sorry for your daughter but given time the better lesson she'll appreciate is showing her, a strong woman that does not accept lies or tolerate poor behavior.

    Be sure to send him the bill for the STD tests. I wouldn't let him think for one minute that I believe his BS story... it was just the thrill AND ignoring your calls texts for 4 hours at the same time.... yeah right. He must think you're really dumb.

    But you're not! Joke is on him.

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    Originally Posted by Alicia22
    nd now heís feeling devastated thatís itís over and heís lost everything. I canít help feel a bit sorry for him because what a place to be in life.
    He chose that place by engaging in this bad behaviour,

    Get rid of the this guy. What you know is almost certainly only the tip of the iceberg.

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    If he is a chronic liar, get a checkup and ask for STD testing. You've known about his extracurricular sexual trysts for 7 mos.[/QUOTE]

    I only found out about the messages 2 days ago through emails and messages sent on Boxing Day.

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    Get tested asap for STDs and look for a new place to live or throw him out. He is a liar and a cheat.

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    Im having trouble working out how to reply to individual messages 😊 but want to say Blue Castle your words have given me comfort and clarity, thank you.

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    Ok, so this is all very fresh. Try to process things and reflect to you can get a clear picture of what has been going on and what will go on going forward.
    Originally Posted by Alicia22
    I only found out about the messages 2 days ago through emails and messages sent on Boxing Day.

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    Typical cheat.

    I am sorry that you are dealing with this! I am sure that this is not the first time he has done this.

    Please get tested! You said that he has a history of being a serial liar?

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    Iím posting here because in his world he thinks
    This would be irrelevant to me.

    I can either trust someone to be loyal or not. If not, then whatever he thinks doesn't matter a wit.

    I understand that you need to process this and work it through, but I believe that you already know where it's going to lead you, and my heart goes out to you.

    You deserve to be with someone who is trustworthy.

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    You saying he doesn't really lie ( but isn't honest about his whereabouts) is like being kinda pregnant.
    You either are or you aren't.
    He's dishonest and therefore has lost your trust.
    There's no reason to believe someone who habitually lies.

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