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    Why don't you get a real BF that you like and who is closer to your age and not a cousin? Are cousin marriages or arranged marriages normal in your culture? It's unclear why you are flirting with a cousin or he is suggesting his mother thinks you should marry.
    Originally Posted by Newgirlforever
    What am I supposed to say.. Like when he does the 'flirting again' or the next time I talk to him 😢😢

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    Originally Posted by LaHermes
    He sure has a real nifty line in chat lol

    "he said his mother liked me and wanted us to get married "
    I think it's true because before when they used to visit us, his mom would drop hints at my mom about it 😢

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    All of this is quite beside the point OP.

    Never mind that his mother is acting as marriage broker. L.

    "I think it's true because before when they used to visit us, his mom would drop hints at my mom about it"

    You know this individual is unsuitable and all that was thrashed out on the other thread.

    An example (you remarked):

    "Also I just hate it when he tells me to shut the f**k up and calls me a bi*ch (he says he's just kidding but it pisses me off so bad) sometimes he flips me off too "

    Do get a BF closer to home.

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    Originally Posted by LaHermes
    All of this is quite beside the point OP.

    Never mind that his mother is acting as marriage broker. L.

    "I think it's true because before when they used to visit us, his mom would drop hints at my mom about it"

    You know this individual is unsuitable and all that was thrashed out on the other thread.

    An example (you remarked):

    "Also I just hate it when he tells me to shut the f**k up and calls me a bi*ch (he says he's just kidding but it pisses me off so bad) sometimes he flips me off too "

    Do get a BF closer to home.
    Woah woah you got the wrong thread... I wasn't talking about that guy, he's long gone from my life 😳😳😳

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    Originally Posted by LaHermes
    All of this is quite beside the point OP.

    Never mind that his mother is acting as marriage broker. L.

    "I think it's true because before when they used to visit us, his mom would drop hints at my mom about it"

    You know this individual is unsuitable and all that was thrashed out on the other thread.

    An example (you remarked):

    "Also I just hate it when he tells me to shut the f**k up and calls me a bi*ch (he says he's just kidding but it pisses me off so bad) sometimes he flips me off too "

    Do get a BF closer to home.
    " I was talking about this thread that i wrong back in 2018 - " its a long story so please bare with me yall I knwww but I really need you're help!! 😢 so theres this guy and he's my half cousin ( he's 27 and im 20 ) we are 7 years difference and yea he's my half cousin and I really like him ..he came with his to my house last December and nothing happened.. but I wanted to let that I liked him ...like at least give him hints that I like him . So I started messaging him on Facebook and then he asked for my number and weeks started texting on whatsapp and things were going well between us like I gave him hints that I liked him and he did too like he used to call me sweetie, cutie , baba , pretty lady , and this one time he texted me like 'good morning my lady' ( he's like a goofy guy kinda attitude ) and one day he said he liked me very much and said i was a very caring person ...I mean if he just saw me as his cousin he wouldnt be sayin all this .....😢this one time he said that my hands were really soft and he liked it alot (we shook hands when he came home so he texted him that they were so soft) last Saturday he just randomly texted me that he couldn't wait for me to come to his place (we live in two different states) and I said me too and he put a sad smiley and he said that liked me ...like outta nowhere he said he likes me and then I said that I liked him too and he didn't messaged me after that " 😢😢

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    OP, you just said above:

    "So there's this guy and he's my half cousin (he's 30 and I'm 23) (I've already posted about him before in an old thread.. I'm just updating it) "

    so.

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    Originally Posted by LaHermes
    OP, you just said above:

    "So there's this guy and he's my half cousin (he's 30 and I'm 23) (I've already posted about him before in an old thread.. I'm just updating it) "

    so.
    But that wasn't the thread I was talking about 😢😢😢😢 idk how to add the old thread to direct you to it sorry 😢😢😢

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    Originally Posted by Newgirlforever
    What am I supposed to say.. Like when he does the 'flirting again' or the next time I talk to him 😢😢
    Stop talking to him if you're feeling confused or like this is going in the wrong direction and something doesn't feel right to you.

    If you feel better about talking with him again, don't respond to any of the flirtatious comments.

    This person sounds like a predator and a creep.

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    Do your parents know about this? Surely, if he's your cousin they know who he is.

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    1) You are related, so that right there should be the end of it. Ewww just ewww and it's disturbing you don't get this.

    2) He is 30 and you are only 23. Normally 7 years is not a big deal, but at your point in life, it's a huge deal. You are way too young and you and him are at totally different levels of maturity and life stages. You shouldn't even be looking at 30 something men. Another yuck. The fact that you are so infatuated and stuck on this just illustrates how young and immature you still are.

    3) Hot/cold is NOT about shyness and never about shyness. Hot/cold is a grown ass man effing with you and your naivete. He is literally playing games with you knowing full well that you are too young and inexperienced to get what he is doing and he is pretty much getting a good laugh at your expense.

    His mother allegedly wants you two to get married? Seriously? What kind of creepy messed up family is this? What part of just say no to dating relatives is not clear to you OP?

    Please grow up and get your head screwed on straight.

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