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    Is my feeling normal?

    I have a close friend for almost 4 years now and she is a smart nice person but she is well known to wear sexy clothes and a self confessed attention seeker in social media especially, to attract people especially men. She is married by the way. I don't have any problem with that even though we are totally opposite from each other. We invited each other to each of our place for the course of 4 years and obviously meet each other's family. The last time that I invited her to my place though, she grab my husband's glass with alcohol and sip on it and they end up sharing the same glass of alcohol while we are watching tv. My husband didn't say or do anything. Before that, we were playing cards with my 10 year old child so it was 4 of us. She was next to my husband and everytime my husband will put a card she will looked at him flirtatiously while giggling saying all the time that he is cheating. She also often kick him softly on his thigh. I spoke to my husband about that and told him that I feel uncomfortable and a bit upset about it and he said that he didn't think too much about when they shared the same glass together. He said he thought she just doesn't want to pour herself a drink so that she won't drink too much. Please tell me, is it normal that I feel upset and thanks for your advice.

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    She seems like a flirt. It may be best not to socialize with them if you feel this jealous.

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    She's clearly a flirt and doesn't know (or care) where to draw the line. She's basically disrespecting YOU and your relationship. As for your husband, he needs to have boundaries too. I would put some distance between this "friend".

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    She doesn't sound like much of a friend.

    Honestly, it sounds like she's testing the waters a bit to see if your husband will flirt back with her. Tell her plainly to knock it off. Your husband will hopefully also discourage this behaviour from her in the future.

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    Your husband is not as naive as he lets on.

    His behaviour was just as bad as hers.
    He should not have shared a drink with her and he did not innocently do so.
    Any fool would know that she is crossing boundaries.

    Being married means nothing.

    She is not a friend of yours. Ditch her

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    She sounds like a home wrecker.

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    Because she "wears sexy clothes".? lol. It takes two to wreck a home, so if hubby has trouble resisting
    women that is your and his problem.
    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    She sounds like a home wrecker.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Because she "wears sexy clothes". lol. It takes two to wreck a home
    No, because was all over her friendís husband like a bad rash.

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    She went from "wearing sexy clothes" to being the mistress in just 6 posts?

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    No, because was all over her friendís husband like a bad rash.
    Yes. She is inappropriate. It's up to your husband to decide how he is going to react.

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