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Thread: ADVICE NEEDED: My deadbeat dads ex girlfriend keeps trying to contact me?? WHY?

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    Platinum Member Rose Mosse's Avatar
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    This may be more painful if you don't have a solid relationship with your father. She is a link or was a link to him and it hurts you still.

    The relationship between your father and this woman seems a bit disorganized, poorly timed or maybe a bad influence overall on your father because of the way he treated his biological children. I don't think it's a good idea to communicate with her as much as you might want to lash out or give her a piece of your mind or ask her questions.

    I wouldn't seek help or answers from this woman. Contact a local support group, your therapist, take a few moments to ask yourself why you're feeling these waves of different emotions. I think they all have to do with unresolved pain and frustration with your father. If you've made progress in these years past, I wouldn't let myself slide back so easily just because someone decides one day she's bored and needs someone to talk to.

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    How did she contact you? What did the message say? Reply 'what's up?".

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    Your title says she keeps trying to contact you but your post suggests only once?
    Which is it?

    How did she contact you?
    What did she say?
    How long has it been since your dad and her split up?
    How do you know she is pregnant and engaged?

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    None of us have a crystal ball, so I'd just ask her what she wants if it's of any curiosity for you to know.

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