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    there are no boundaries here you need to get out of this as early as possible. He has no respect for you
    oh yeah dont date jerks and perverts Getting Ready for a First Date

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    Exactly. Live and learn. The best part is you can write him off (no do not lecture or fix him...just block/delete) and move on to respectful guys.
    Originally Posted by coolbeans100
    I'm 18. He's 20.He can control himself, but probably doesn't want to and tries to see how far he can take it which is not an excuse.

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    My thoughts are if you had abruptly stopped him in his tracks, he'd either sink or swim, yet you'd have your answer.

    Keep in mind that we set the standards on how others treat us.

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    Originally Posted by coolbeans100
    I'm 18. He's 20. Ahh that's true! He can control himself, but probably doesn't want to and tries to see how far he can take it which is not an excuse.
    The bottom line is that he does not respect you and only wants sex. When someone does not respect your wishes, you need to walk, not excuse.

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    He is only looking to get laid. Sorry but he's the worst of the worst. Pushing to put his hands all over you is disrespectful. He's not wanting to get to know you as a person either. How degrading!

    The next time he sends a text say this: Your message could not be delivered as ... the recipient has moved on".

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    Originally Posted by LoreliFinn
    He is only looking to get laid. Sorry but he's the worst of the worst. Pushing to put his hands all over you is disrespectful. He's not wanting to get to know you as a person either. How degrading!

    The next time he sends a text say this: Your message could not be delivered as ... the recipient has moved on".
    I love that text message response!

    OP you are still quite young. The best lesson to take from this moving forward is to respect yourself enough to not take any guys crap! Whether it be they are all hands or they say something offensive.

    Now you know where your boundaries are set and thatís a good thing.

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