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    Is it weird that I did this?

    I'm not sure if this is the correct forum (and I say that a lot, lol).

    OK---in high school I used to day dream A LOT about sex and being an adult (to put it mildly). I even once daydreamed of answering the phone during sex. Well eight years ago, I did just that. Yup, I answered the phone while I was on top of my boyfriend having sex.

    We were alone in my parent's house, in my bedroom, when the house phone called. I ignored it. Then my cell phone rang. I knew it was my mom, and I also knew that if I didn't answer it right then and there, she would get suspicious. So I remembered in high school about the fantasy/daydream I had about answering the phone during sex. So yup, I answered my cell and casually talked to my mom. (Of course I kept my voice as normal as possible and kept the conversation short.)

    Is it wrong/inappropriate that I did that? That I should've just kept it as a fantasy? I only did it that one time.

    All feedback/opinions welcome. Getting Ready for a First Date

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    Did your mom detect anything abnormal in your voice as you spoke to her?

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    Originally Posted by melancholy123
    Did your mom detect anything abnormal in your voice as you spoke to her?
    Nope, didnít suspect a thing.

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    I don't think there's anything wrong with it except that it says a bit too much about the kind of sex you were having and it may say a lot about the kind of lover you are with your partner.

    Otherwise, to each their own. Does it feel inappropriate to you or did you enjoy it?

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    Your parents worry about the autism, so you should answer your phone.

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    Yeah it's kinda creepy but I text people while I'm pooping on the toilet, so I can hardly judge lol Actually you know my Mum used to be so clingy and overbearing and she used to call me all the time. I'd be at my boyfriend's place having sex with him and my Mum would call. If I didn't pick up, she'd call again the second or third time! I never actually answered while having sex. But if your Mum is the same then I can see why you did lol

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    Originally Posted by Rose Mosse
    Does it feel inappropriate to you or did you enjoy it?
    Looking back, I'd say I thought it was cool. As I said, I daydreamed about doing that in high school, so when I got the opportunity I jumped on it.


    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Your parents worry about the autism, so you should answer your phone.
    We did not know I was autistic when this happened.

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    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    Well eight years ago, I did just that.

    All feedback/opinions welcome.
    My opinion is that this was eight years ago. Not sure why it even needs any thought anymore.

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    Originally Posted by Capricorn3
    My opinion is that this was eight years ago. Not sure why it even needs any thought anymore.
    My huge memory is part of my autism. This memory was on my mind and I was wondering if it was out of the ordinary that I did that.

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    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    My huge memory is part of my autism. This memory was on my mind and I was wondering if it was out of the ordinary that I did that.
    How would you even evaluate what is "ordinary" especially in the teenage years?

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