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Thread: moving with my girlfriend to another state.

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    Don't make any major plans like this if you don't have a backup plan. Do you have a job lined up? If not, do you have enough money saved up to tide you over until you find a job? If you break up, could you afford to live by yourself?

    What is the reason that you're moving across the state? It sounds like a frivolous plan to me.

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    What specifically is making you anxious, OP?

    It's a big step for such a young relationship, I will say that. Is that what's troubling you?

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    IMO, you shouldn't even be making major life decisions like moving in with someone until you've known them a minimum of a year. You're not dating at a normal pace and so it's at a high risk for burning so bright and fast it just might implode.

    It's important to see a person through all sorts of facets of life before playing house. You have to see if a person can be faithful over time, how they will care for you or not if you're sick, if they come to your aid when your car breaks down if you need their help, and if they support you through rough times. It sometimes takes time for skeletons to come out of the closet if there are any. You're only in the newness stage now where you're only scratching the surface of who she is.

    That's why you're so anxious. And if she's the one with the job and footing all the bills at the beginning, she might be all happy at the beginning with a fresh start, but if you can't get work as fast as she assumed, don't be surprised if resentment starts building.

    With more knowledge of why this is the path you both want to go down, maybe we can supply better advice.

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    Is this causing any friction, besides the lack of privacy?
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    Im cureently living with her, in her moms house.

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