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    Dad cheating on mom?

    I was searching for something on my dads [50m] laptop, and I noticed weird site, which looked like a casual forum or dating site. There was also a nickname saved in the logging window but no password. When I asked what it was, he told that he didnt know and he saw this for the first time, so obviously some spam. But my brother told me he saw this exact site there approx 3 yrs ago, so he might have been lying. When I entered this laptop a few hours later, the saved logname was gone, it was probably deleted. I am a little scared what this is, should I tell my mom? [50f]

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    You should stay out of it.

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    Why do you think?

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    Because people’s relationships are with each other.

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    Im sorry, could you please explain this a little bit further?

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    Your mom and dad‘s relationship is with each other not with you and your brother. Unless you think it would be fair for them to get in the middle of you and your relationship with someone else. Also if you get involved you make an enemy out of each of your parents or your dad. Maybe your mom knows and she’s turned a blind eye to it? Maybe your parents are swingers who knows. But just because you are somebody’s child doesn’t mean you need to be involved in their relationship with each other. They have a relationship independent of you.

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    None of your business, it's between them two to figure out their issues or whatever is going on between them. This habit of snooping has got to stop as well.
    You respect other people's privacy. You don't look through their computer, phone, etc. Mind your own business.

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    Seriously stay out of their business and stop snooping. You really know nothing about their marriage even though you live with them. Remember, they navigated a whole relationship long before they had you and they will have one after you move out. It is their relationship, not yours. Butt out.

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    It probably takes a pretty big person to step away from something like that especially if it concerns your parents. I don't blame you for feeling upset and hurt for seeing that. Talk about trust issues down the line too in your own relationships.

    I don't think talking to your mum about it will stop any of your dad's behaviours if he's doing anything he shouldn't. You've already spoken to your dad so let it be. Let things unravel on their own and don't get too involved at this point. Don't assume either. Not your place. Just carry on as best you can but I feel for you especially if you have no clue what's going on.

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    it could be anything he must be looking out for some plans for your mom, looking for advices, may be giving out too who knows.

    do a favor to yourself, tell dad to create a separate laptop user account for you to login and work, you both need privacy i guess incase you dont have your own laptop.

    let it go...

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