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Thread: What should I do after my boyfriend only said ' Happy birthday' and that's it?

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    Platinum Member Wiseman2's Avatar
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    The relationship gurus advice is nonsense. He simply doesn't care that much. Instead of these gurus, read "He's Just Not That Into You". .Much more specific insight.

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    Originally Posted by raquellexxx
    But why he accepted my goodbye words and didn't even put an effort to ask me if this was my final decision or something? Not to mention to fight for us..
    Because he simply wasn't that interested in a relationship with you.

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    Originally Posted by raquellexxx
    And I know he didn't play with me on 100% and part of the powerful words he was telling me were honest.
    Why is this good enough for you? That he wasn't 100% a jerk and SOME of his words were honest? Even the most cold blooded criminals have some soft moments. Please, write down all the crappy ways he treated you and stick it somewhere you can see everyday. Read it over whenever you hear that little noise "Did I make a mistake?" Then say aloud, no, you didn't make a mistake. Good riddance!

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    LDRs are very difficult. How much do you have in common if you are in different time zones?
    Originally Posted by raquellexxx
    We are in a long distance relationship

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    Originally Posted by raquellexxx
    What hurts me the most (even though I know that I shouldn't blindly believe in men's words) is the fact the he seemed a different guy that really care for his girlfriend, not a womanizer (which I hate) and stuff. When I mean dignity, I was talking about neglecting my own feelings and needs after he is not changing his behaviour which hurts me before..

    Should I finally leave him after this situation and then the lack of understanding plus his behaviour because I know that he won't say sorry and even text me again until I do it?
    You need to pay attention to someones behavoiur over their words.
    People can say all sorts of things, but if the actions don't support it, then it's all for nothing. You've heard the term `words are cheap'?
    I'd personally rather have someone show me how they feel, then tell me how they feel. There is a difference.

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    Disregard my post, I hadn't read the later developments.

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