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Thread: Started NC again

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    Originally Posted by StokeCity1
    I never insinuated that I wanted to unblock her?! And I do get what No Contact means thank you, there is no need to be rude, I only asked what should I do when I find myself wanting to talk to her because again as I stated on my post I've never been one to be in NC before, I've always been the one that's blocked after a breakup
    Hey, sorry if I came off rude. Earlier in the thread I thought you said that you thought no contact was you blocking her and being able to unblock and re-block whenever you felt like it. Mustíve been my misunderstanding.

    The answer to your question is, when you have the urge to be in contact with her, just donít. Thatís no contact.

    It ainít easy and itís not supposed to be but it is the fastest way to heal and start feeling normal again.

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    Originally Posted by StokeCity1
    She doesn't have Facebook so that's OK and of course you can still reach out when your the one who initiates NC, it's easy to just go on your blocked list and unblock?!
    This is what confused me.

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    Try reminding yourself that NC is meant for you to heal, and should have nothing to do with the OP. Of course, it's not a walk in the park, but can be done as long as you look forward, and not backwards.

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    Originally Posted by Destroyed 33
    Hey, sorry if I came off rude. Earlier in the thread I thought you said that you thought no contact was you blocking her and being able to unblock and re-block whenever you felt like it. Mustíve been my misunderstanding.

    The answer to your question is, when you have the urge to be in contact with her, just donít. Thatís no contact.

    It ainít easy and itís not supposed to be but it is the fastest way to heal and start feeling normal again.
    No it's okay, I should of explained properly! Today is the 3rd day of no contact and I really want to reach out to her but I refuse to be treated like I have been

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    Originally Posted by StokeCity1
    No it's okay, I should of explained properly! Today is the 3rd day of no contact and I really want to reach out to her but I refuse to be treated like I have been
    You just canít man. Itís like a strong addiction. Trust me, I know full well. If you contact her it will be totally pointless and will set yourself way back. So donít. DONT!!!!!!!

    Do anything else that works for you. Literally, take care of yourself. It ainít easy but itís the only way out of what your feeling.

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