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    I’d move out toot sweet and try my best not to be punitive or passive aggressive about it. Like a “cheerful your loss” kind of attitude as best as I could muster.

    I’d likely continue dating her, albeit with a WAY dialed back approach. I’d be hopeful that she would keep on wanting to see me but totally prepared for a fizzle-out and dignified exit.

    Good luck man

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    I would pack my stuff up and go....don't look back. If she wants to see you it's because she is using you to slowly let go...rip off that band-aid...less painful.

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    Yeah she's ended it in her head and not bee fully honest about that decision with you. Find somewhere else to live ASAP without making yourself homeless. Wish her well and block. You will be fine even though it sucks right now.

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    When is your lease up? if its a one year lease, i would stay until its finished. withdraw from anything a boyfriend would do - no sex, no spooning, be two ships passing in the night. Move, but you do have some rights. That is, unless you are on the lease. Also, shouldn't she be the one to move if she is the one who wants out of the relationship? Unless she lived there first. Once you no longer live together, cut contact

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    Yep I am moving out at the end of the week. The lease is in her name. She comes back from her parents today, so we will see how next week goes.

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    Excellent 👍. Good luck in your new endeavors.
    Originally Posted by lightwelter
    Yep I am moving out at the end of the week. The lease is in her name.

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