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Thread: Did i do the right thing?

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    Did i do the right thing?

    Gf breaks up with me then on the same week goes on a camping trip with another dude.
    Comes back and starts crying on the phone how lousy the date was and i blow up on her, because shes actually crying about the guy rejecting her. Because this also means she was seeing him behind my back, has no respect for the relationship we had, and now using me as an emotional pillow. And she treated me like crap thru the breakup as tho it was all my fault.

    I blow up on her so hard she blocks me on everything and its now completely over.

    Did i do the right thing?
    Last edited by Jinstron; 05-30-2020 at 05:28 AM.

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    Why is it only now that you say itís completely over?
    Wasnít it completely over when you broke up?

    How long ago did this all happen?
    Who broke up with who? Why and when?

    Iím guessing with social distancing , this canít have been recent?

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    Definitely done the right thing, she's vile and selfish. Don't ever let her in to your life again. She's a nasty person.

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    whats the background? how long were you together?
    well she being nasty to you and you blowing up on her makes it even i guess? No.
    We all makes mistakes she did & you did, best thing to do now is stay away from her, let her go now and you take care of yourself be at peace. It sounds too messy now to engage with her.

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    Of course you've done the right thing. How could it not be the right thing?

    She wasn't in love with you if she ended it with you to spend a weekend with another guy, and had the stones to cry to you about it. You're very much Plan B, but not a guy she even respects.

    I would never speak to her again.

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    You did the right thing.

    Be glad she blocked you... saved you the trouble.

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    We were together 2 months and 1 yr friendship before that.

    The thing i dont get, how can see tell me she loves me through and through even during the breakup and then go do this?

    She even said times and times she loves me so much it actually scares her.

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    Originally Posted by Jinstron
    The thing i dont get, how can see tell me she loves me through and through even during the breakup and then go do this?

    She even said times and times she loves me so much it actually scares her.
    Because she has no clue what love actually means. She's too immature for true love right now.

    How old is this girl?

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    She is... 32... 😂

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    Originally Posted by Jinstron
    She is... 32... 😂
    Oh wow, I thought you were going to tell us she is 19 or 20.

    Honestly. Forget her. If she still doesn't know what love is at 32 and still behaves like a teenager, you are well rid of her.

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