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    Originally Posted by Jewels465
    Sorry, but most on here are giving you terrible advice.
    Agree, terrible advice
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    next time hes acting that way, take his phone. See what hes doing. Just start snooping.
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    Originally Posted by Jewels465
    Sorry, but most on here are giving you terrible advice. If hes hiding something, do you think hes going to tell you? No, hes not. If it is a surprise (probably not) do you want to ruin it? No. Its best to keep your eyes open and mouth shut. If you get a chance, look at his phone. Or next time hes acting that way, take his phone. See what hes doing.

    Look, the worst thing you could do is ask him at this point. If he is doing something he will just hide it more. Then, you will never find out whats going on. You already feel like something is off. Trust your gut. Just start snooping.
    Snooping is a really "healthy" way to have a relationship. God forbid there be communication.

    Terrible advice.

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    Cheaters are liars already. Do you you really thing they will be upfront and come clean?

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    We don't know if he's cheated yet, though. We only know about his phone behavior. We don't have any other background about their relationship. Maybe they're two honest but paranoid oddballs who jump at shadows and don't communicate.

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    Originally Posted by Twinkles
    So what am I supposed to think? He doesn't disappear off for hours or anything like that. His phone is locked and always has been since we met.
    He may be flirting, how do you feel about that?

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    The strength & weakness of a site like this is that you get advice from everyone. Some who apparently have little experience in relationships.

    Do NOT snoop. It could be he's looking at porn, or gun clubs, or anything he thinks you may disapprove of, though it does sound like it may be more simply because of your own attitude towards it.

    DO communicate. Not because he's definitely doing something wrong or because he'd definitely admit it, but because you can glean something from his reaction and subsequent behaviour.

    Do NOT ignore it if it continues.

    Best of luck

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