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Thread: i saw a thread and i related to what that person said so much

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    yes, i just have my mom, i live with her. i lived with my boyfriend for a while but we are doing long distance now so i moved back home because he was not ok with me living alone

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    Edited because I read your update.

    As I wrote in Dana's thread, men like this love making you feel horrible about yourself. He won't stop because he likes it. He will not attend counseling and he will never admit he's doing anything wrong. He will blame you for everything. He will even say he wouldn't have to call you names if you didn't deserve it.

    Tell your mom what he's doing. Ask for her support in staying away from him. Change your number so he can't contact you.

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    Originally Posted by diana10
    yes, i just have my mom, i live with her. i lived with my boyfriend for a while but we are doing long distance now so i moved back home because he was not ok with me living alone
    Then this is easier, you tell him you are breaking up and you block him on everything and then call an abuse hotline to get help and encouragement to stay out of relationships like this.

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    if he was alyas like this i would agree, should do what you said, but every day he is nice, he says he wants to marry me and is working right know to buy a house for us but his jealousy is over the roof. im scared that what happend today will happen again and i dont know what to do. except my mom he is the only person in my life so i think i would be lost without him

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    Did you read all of Dana's thread?

    Abusers are not mean all the time or no one would stay with them.

    Please tell your mother what he said to you and ask for her support to help you stay away from him.

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    Look up the cycle of abuse. Anyone who calls you names and tells you to kill yourself is an abusive nut.

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    The thing is abusive people make you think you “need “them. You don’t. Tell him goodbye and change your number today and block him on everything. In a little while you will feel so much better you won’t even believe it.

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    Are you Dana's boyfriend??
    Did you spy her Phone ?

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    Can someone tell me why was the thread closed?
    I'm kind of worried about Dana.

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    I think she wanted it closed.

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