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    I'm 35 and my mom asks about my visits with my bf

    I'm not sure if this is the correct forum to put this in, but here it goes.

    I visited my boyfriend yesterday at his place. He and I watched a movie and then spent the rest of the day having sex. When I got home, my mom asked how my visit was and "So, what did you guys do?"

    Obviously, I can't exactly say, "We had great sex. How about you and dad?" Thing is, I feel that I'm lying to her, which I don't want to do. (Before one visit last month she said, "Don't get pregnant." I said. "Mom!" My dad overheard and even told her not to say that. I'm an adult so I shouldn't feel guilty about having sex with my bf.)


    I guess what I'm asking here is, what should I say when she asks what we did without feeling like I'm lying? (I live at home and I'm autistic, if that explains anything.)

    All opinions/feedback/welcome. Thanks for reading. :) Getting Ready for a First Date

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    "We just relaxed and enjoyed each other's company."

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    Originally Posted by SarahLancaster
    "We just relaxed and enjoyed each other's company."
    Ok, that's good for a start. But she asks a lot for specifics. (To put it mildly, lol.)

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    "We binge-watched some movies". She doesn't need to (or want to) know about your sex life.
    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    I visited my boyfriend yesterday at his place. He and I watched a movie and then spent the rest of the day having sex. When I got home, my mom asked how my visit was and "So, what did you guys do?" (I live at home and I'm autistic, if that explains anything.)

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    Just say we watched movies and had some supper. Asking what somebody did while they were out is just normal conversation.

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    I know you were planning to have your tubes done so did you end up doing that?

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    "We binge-watched some movies". She doesn't need to (or want to) know about your sex life.
    Ok, good. BUT I have a strong feeling she will ask about my sex life eventually. Then what should I say? (I feel it because she has asked, "There's not a chance you're pregnant, is there?" a couple times in the past when I've felt nauseous. I"m on birth control so no, there never will be.)

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    I would just tell her my sex life is my business.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    I know you were planning to have your tubes done so did you end up doing that?
    I've had the copper Paraguard since 2012. I was hesitant about getting my tubes done because it's so invasive, but lately I've been re-considering it.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    I would just tell her my sex life is my business.
    I agree. :) lol, if she asks, should I re-direct the question to her about dad?

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